Danni, you sound like me, I am trying my hardest to get a BFP before feb as well. I ovulate next week, well I should say I will be mid cycle next week (whether I ov or not is another story).

I haven't officially told anyone we have been ttc but I think most have assumed due to our age (both in the 30's) and the fact we have been married for 4 years. MIL hints for information on a regular basis but I ignore her and anyone else who is rude enough to ask.

I think that keeping it under wraps is wise and I am glad I have only told Mum and one other friend.

Sarams, I dont think you are awful at all. I think the reason I have held off saying anything to anyone is basically an instinct that they wont know how to react and it sounds as though it is quite a common problem. I guess you cannot control what other people say or who they chose to tell these things so it is better not to go down that road at all.

Thank heavens for this forum