Max they are hard work but I guess it seems normal to me. Though at the moment I am exhausted, Adam has gastro so I was up most of the night, tonight he drank his bottle of milk at bedtime then promptly threw it straight up. I'll feed him again around 10pm Just hoping that Hayden doesn't get it too.

But seriously definately worth it, especially watching them interact together makes me think if I had of had one how different it would have been. I found from early on I was able to feed them both and change nappies within an hour which was better than I expected, so I did have some relax time. Now they are more lively relax time is nap time, though usually its doing housework so not really relaxing. Lucky at the moment they tend to have both morning and afternoon naps at the same time. Went through a stage where that wasn't happening which was hard.

We are lucky that they go to bed at 6pm so after that we have dinner and time together.

good luck