Hey Maz.....Kiya here....I so totally agree with what you are saying.....We are going down the IVF path and are wanting 2 put back in to better our chances, and if we have twins, great...We would love them equally and would feel very blessed, because regardless of our they came about they are still very much wanted.....I sadly can't have a TR because the Dr that did it int he first place screwed up my tubes and they are so damaged it would be pointless, plus i also have endometriosis hence also our reason for having IVF....I so can't wait for it all to start, and hopefully at the end of the day be able to hold a beautiful baby/babies and love them and enjoy watching them grow up to wonderful little aussies....cheers kiya