Thanks Melissa for your response.

I am looking forward to the appointment

That would make sense about the donor identity issues. I remember that Victoria brought in some kind of legislation along those lines (I think).

From what I can gather the main problem for single and lesbian women in NSW is that at some clinics they are not eligible for medicare rebates for AC because they are classed as "socially infertile". But I don't believe that all clinics make this distinction.