Thanks Possums.

I have thought about this and decided to make a change. I swallowed what she said after my first m/c - and for months I was able to put that aside and focus on her skills (which I do believe in) - but I am no longer able to do this. I just can't go to someone who doesn't understand that less than 7 days after their 2nd loss, it is not appropriate to "blame" them and call them impatient and say that they don't want to help themselves (paraphrasing, but this is what I heard).

I had saved a brochure that was in the chemist where i picked up my last round of ivf drugs of a place that specializes in fertility issues - they do acupuncture and other alternative treatments in for fertility including in conjunction with ivf - they made a point on their website of saying they work with Western medicine and they are convenient (not as convenient, but it won't be stressful for me to get to them, which was my main concern). I hope this is the right choice for me. I figure that if I want to go back to her, I can...but at this point, i doubt it.

Possums - How is your acup treatment going? I also of course hope that you are doing OK - you've had to absorb a lot of information of late. My belief is that now that you have been diagnosed, you will get there - I really do.