it was definitely the more dignified article of the two Sushee - my only problem is that it seems she's justifying and encouraging the belief that IVF is for people that have left it too late. i would doubt that the bulk of IVF'ers are in the game purely because of age related issues...

she's been clear and articulate in her explanation, and has explained WHY it can be hard for us beautifully - i just think there needs to be a whole lot more information out there in mainstream mags about the fact that infertility isn't JUST about age - a passing mention isn't sufficient (IMO)

and yes, the calmness of her reply has just made the fertiliy goddess seem even more pathetic!