How do you and DH handle it...(take 2!)

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Hi everyone...it seems my last post of this thread didn't work...so here it my question again ..and sorry for asking yet another question, but...

How do you and your DH handle LTTTC and losses? DH and I are finding it tough going right now. It has at times, felt like it has most definately brought us closer together...surviving through it, bonded through it, with DH so lovely and supportive I love him even more.

Other times though, like now, we experience it so differently, we seem to be isolated from one another. I seem to feel the loss more acutely, which I know is common for women,compared to men, I require a lot more emotionally, whereas DH goes inward, and is busy and stressed at work, and I sometimes feel alone, then get angry with him. He in turn feels stressed, tries to be strong for me, feels like he can't reach me and like he is trying to juggle extreme work pressures with all thats going on at home.

Plus he bounces back to positive thinking and looking forward more quickly than I can, because I am still grieving more I think. I would have been 12 weeks today and instead of going in for an ultrasound, I went in for multiple blood tests to check for possible miscarriage causes. It's sad.

I guess I just want to know if others have experienced this. I know we'll pull through and reconnect again in time.