How often to BD???

[visitor10]

You poor thing D....I know exactly how you feel. It is so unfair isn't it?

I feel like crying too for you D

As you said maybe you do just need a month off and to start seeing another spec. If he is not trying to do what you have asked maybe it is time.

I'm a little frustrated at my spec at the moment too as she said that as I wasn't an "urgent" case I can't get in to see her any earlier than at the end of next month so that means that we are going to waste yet another month trying "naturally". I tried to also get her to write up a script yesterday for some medication for Brian to at least assist with his performance issues (as it would make it a hell of allot less stressful for both of us at that time) and she wouldn't prescribe them! She said that it is her "policy" and she would rather him get off on staring at strange naked women in magazines....strange thinking if you ask me....

I don't know whether you work or not but perhaps take a day off and indulge yourself in some pampering or something like that....God knows you deserve it!

Take care of yourself...

[Deanna76]

Thanks Rara.

I am working today, however as the main GP in our practice is sadly attending the funeral of his 19 year old niece who committed suicide we are really quite.
I am pretty much just answering phones and sitting here on the computer feeling sorry for myself.
Did you mean that your hubby needs viagra or cialis or something like that? Thats crappy that your doc won't just write him a script. It's difficult enough BDing while actively TTC without having to introduce porn into to!!
I am thinking that I will try and get an appt with FS this afternoon or tomorrow to discuss where to go from here and to hear his thoughts on the timing of my IUI cycles. I know that DH won't be available this month on the right day either so FS suggested last month the possibility of hubby providing sperm for freezing and use at a later date. So much to think about and try and plan that I think perhaps a month off is the go.........

Thank you SOOOOOO much for your support. My fingers are stilled crossed for you this month. What day are you up to?

[visitor10]

Not a problem at all sweetie...

AF is due on Tuesday so this is Day 24 for me. I've felt no different and am starting to break out in some pimples etc so am thinking AF is on her way.

Yep we tried to get viagra from my spec but she wouldn't prescribe it. I sometimes wonder whether she really wants to help us or not. I can't believe how quickly you can get into see your spec...you must be on his "urgent list"

That is really terrible about that young girl...it certainly doesn't help when you are already feel down.

I think we can both give ourselves the month off next month and start again in July what do you think?

Keep smiling