((hugs)) I can't imagine the pressure that the whole assisted conception process puts on ppl but I really feel for you. I just wanted to say there was a time in my life that I was really emotionally overwhelmed (and hormonal) and I found the best way to avoid having 'spillovers' at work was to get all my crying done in my own time. This meant attending emotional release therapy and 'processing' all my feelings. A regular time with a counsellor when you can let it all hang out can be marvellously relieving.

HTH and I wish you all the very best luck with your IVF.