its amazing the things people think. but what is worse is when they blurt it out. i wouldnt worry about it mate. doesnt matter who they are or where they work, sometimes people have big mouths. i suppose when people havent been through it or seen someone go through it they are just plain naive. i had friends who had 3 m/c and actually went to england for a months holiday hoping it would happen! crazy huh! it didnt work but 2 years later they have just had a baby girl.