GRRRRRR.... this is nearly as helpful as "you are trying too hard" I still haven't worked out how we could being trying "too hard" ????? It's bad enough that these comments come from "helpful" family & friends but 1000 times worse when they come from strangers who don't even know you !!!! I reckon I've tried everything... being relaxed, being stressed, staying in resorts,camping in tents,pillow under my butt, being drunk, being stoned ( ok,ok I was VERY young & stupid) (& it was only once) oh hang on I haven't stood on my head yet !!! Maybe the next time I go on holiday when I won't be in the mood to "try too hard" I will kill all romance and I'll stress out I'm forcing myself & hubby & afterward I'll try the standing on my head LOL !!!! Oh & while I'm at it I may as well lose weight too because that was "helpful" information as well !!! Oh wait, I'm in need of losing weight so I may not be able to stand on my head anyway because I'm so heavy ..... dammit !!! heeheehee what to do ????????
Sorry about the sarcasm tonight but I get soooo angry when I'm spoken to with "helpful" advice from strangers, I can't help but shake my head with wonder !!!!
ps... I realise that occassionally some people don't intend on making hurtful comments but you do get a bit over it !!!!!!