Hey Mrs P,

Good on you for having a vent and getting it out. I think there are lots of BB members that can indentify with other peoples insensitive comments.

When my sister fell pregnant unexpectantly her comment to me was "now you just need to go get pregnant then we can go through it together". At the time I was going through my second cycle of IVF and had been been through lots of hard stuff medically for a year - she knew this!

You are doing all that you can do, so don't let anyone bring you down. Keep believing that you will be filling all those bedrooms one day!

I agree with Lucia, tell them it's in the hands of the universe, and the universe has it's own timetable!