hi,
thanks BG. you are a great help! i have the fear that they have used the two best embies this first time. i can't remember the quality of the other 4. it just dosen't seem like i have so many chances left with only 4 frozen. how many do you have transfered each time? i had two and thought i would get one from that for sure...i am becoming more positive each day. i am going to throw all my thoughts into loosing weight instead of ttc.

thanks to you also kimnastics for your thoughts and story. i am sure there are lots of people that have success with FETs. i live in Cairns and i only know of one person who has had IVF. she has two kids and both were concieved with fresh cycles. it is so hard to find women that understand what ttc is like. the next person that tells me too relax and it will happen will be getting a punch in the nose!...

Aphrael- wow!! you give me HOPE! i can't believe it can be as easy as loosing weight. Now tell me. how do a loose it ??hahahaha i went out last thursday (ivf BFN on wed!) and joined Tony Ferguson. i have cut everything that contains sugar especially carbs.i am going to exercise everyday. what else can you do? what is your secret? i really do agree with you that it can sometimes come down to weight. i only wish my FS would have told me to do something about it sooner. everyone is just far too polite. i just needed a kick in the bum ( big one at that!) to get me started.hahahaha.

thanks everyone...
michelle