hi mon

i recently read a book on IVF written in the US, "dummies guide to ivf" i think it was, and it mentions that IVF patients over there also have a shock once they start their cycle and rarely see or talk to their FS. the authors seem to say this lack of contact is a common occurrence and how clinics are designed to operate.

i hardly see or speak to my FS except at EPU or ET. one time i had ET on a public holiday and another dr from the clinic did this, but i was forewarned by the nurses.

the thing i find strange is you can go from cycle to cycle w/out seeing your FS unless you make a point of it. they seem to be able to treat you based on your results. not optimum IMO as a couple of times i have had to pick my FS up on things she has forgotten about me and my treatment. like giving me the wrong drug!

that all said, my experience has been largely positive as the clinic nurses in SIVF canberra have been simply wonderful, going out of their way to help. they don't venture too much specific info, but like sushee said they are beginning to understand i want and expect more. i need to know levels, what they mean and how that may affect my treatment. they will also clarify things with my FS for me if i ask as they have direct contact with her and i don't.

ask questions, follow up on things and request a second opinion or clarification if you have ANY doubts. i regret not doing this at least once when my cycle was canceled and i feel i lost opportunities to conceive.

dusty