N2L - woah hun what a lot to process in one appt. I agree that Spain sounds nice though! Hugs.

Ree ree - yep I'm waiting for you

Jane - transfer is coming up soon, yay for the pessaries (not!). I know what you mean about not wanting to invest too much.

AFM - no cramps or signs for the last day. Trying to fight it but already feeling so much like it hasn't worked. Just went to a 1st bday party and was asked when I was having another baby. I replied "when I'm ready to pay for it" and the person said "oh..." and I said "yeah, I don't get babies for free". It probably came across as rude but this person knew we'd done IVF (but probably just forgot as she's pretty self consumed) and I really think its rude to ask people about it, regardless of whether they did IVF or not.