Hi Im new to the site but desperate to vent and get advice.
I have been ttc for 15mth and we found out that DH is infertile with poor morphology (congenital). I started my 1st IVF/ICSI cycle last month, and I over responded with 26 eggs collected, of which 10 fertilised (4x d2, 6x d5). I couldnt go through with a fresh transfer because I got mild-moderate OHSS, and was devastated with that news, but came to accept it because I couldnt have imagined feeling any worse. This cycle my doc decided I should do a natural FET. I ovulated a week late, but got to do an FET today with a blastocyst embryo. Im very excited, but what annoys me is the lack of information the clinic/docs give me as explanations to things....yesterday 2 of my good grade blastocysts thawed and died, and then a 3rd one which I was told was 100% doing well, didnt survive overnight.So they had to defrost a 4th one this morning which was transfered a few hours later I guess. When I asked, I was told it was very uncommon that 3 died, but that there was no explanation. And now Im worried they havnt told me what could happen with the one inside me..should it have defrosted for 24hrs??
Ive not been told what grade they are, or what freezing process they are using, I was just told when they were frozen that they were very good quality....so why are they not surviving? What worries me is that Im lucky to have that number of eggs frozen at the rate they are dying..but was hoping to get 2 babies from them...it doesnt sound normal.
Has anyone else had similar experiences?
Im trying not to focus on the negatives in my 2ww, so I think this should be my only vent