DD - your DH sounds like an absolute sweetheart and doesnt it make this journey all the more easy - well to a point ...

Slyder - awww sorry to hear the news there for you and your DW ... i hear you on the ironic side of it but when we started at SIVF, the receptionist was pg so everytime we went in there she was the first person you saw ... would be hard for most ppl I am sure ... Fingers crossed that it all works out for you though ... as hard as it is wondering about why things are happening a certain way there must be method in their madness ....