Assess Miss B you gorgeous girl... Try not to freak out too much about the negative result. I tested too early as well with the twins and got a BFN. I didn't really have any symptoms or anything so it was pretty disheartening... BUT as you've said - it was probably too early to test, so it's way to early too be losing hope. I reckon with a 5dt anything after 9dpt is a reasonable time to start testing?

That being said - one of my friends who was cycling around the same time as me last time, got a bfn on a POAS on the morning of her BT - but she went and had the BT anyway... She had accepted it was a BFN and was pretty upset so she went out for lunch with her hubby and they had a G&T each followed by a bottle of wine.... Anyway, she got the call at 5pm that day saying it was a BFP (just after gorging herself on soft cheeses, sashimi and pate) needless to say she was thrilled but freaking out....

So I guess the point is - don't give up hope yet! And I'm sending you big fat hugs and all of the positive energy I have - your way. You really deserve to get your bfp honey, you've put in so much effort and done everything you possibly can. It's an unfair journey - but I really do believe you'll get your bfp if not this time then definitely next time! Hang in there gorgeous,we are all wishing like crazy for you.

Juniper, TT40 your both in my thoughts as well and I'm wishing for you like crazy as well

I just realized your in Perth same as me! If you ever feel like a coffee or a catch up let me know? I'd love to support you through your first FET if you want the support I'm at Concept - can I ask which clinic your at (it's totally fine if you don't want to tell me and I hope you don't think me rude for asking!)

Afm - I'm counting down til 1pm when I can ring the clinic to find out how the thaw went!! Feeling very nervous xx