Long Term TTC & Assisted Conception Jan 2013

[juniper76]

Friday 4th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Rai - CD1
Sarah4Kurt - CD6
Nic - CD6
Treenie86 - CD14
Me4ever - CD15
N2L - CD16
Wishanddream - CD25
Emma - CD26
Faye* - CD39


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Jo_white - CD26 8dpo
Beau30 - CD29 8dp5dt
Juniper - CD29 13dpo


Got Their BFP in January


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

[juniper76]

kbudgie, please don't feel like you need to apologise. This is what we're here for. It is still very early days, hun. I was struggling for months after each of my m/c. My first was similar to yours in that we had been TTC for over 2 years and it was our first ever BFP. Even though I knew from the first b/t that I would probably m/c (low, slow rising numbers), it still hurt so much to eventually lose it. It was about 4 months before I could talk about it without full-on crying, and even then, my eyes would still mist up. And here I am a year after my second m/c and I'm still so angry and upset that DH and I were fighting yesterday too (okay, the PMS played a part too). You are not alone and it is very normal to feel this way so soon after it happens. Don't pressure yourself to "get over it" quickly, because it takes time. You wanted that bub so much and you worked so hard to get it - the grief of its loss won't evaporate overnight.

Mel, hi and welcome! I'm sorry to hear you've had such a difficult time recently. I hope that's the last of your misfortune for a long time. Please let me know when/if you would like to be added to the list. I just need to know where you are in your cycle (eg cycle day, dpo or just "waiting for AF").

Rai, I hope your wait isn't long and you can get started on your next cycle quickly.

Faye, I hope you don't have much longer to wait either. Any idea why it's so late? Hope you have a lovely holiday!

Beau, FX for Wednesday!

AFM, AF is playing silly buggers. I had a light bleed last night (12dpo), but nothing this morning. AF is actually due tomorrow, but turning up last night wasn't outside the realm of possibility (24-36 hours early). I know what I'd be thinking if I read this, but the bleed was red, so I'm pretty sure it wasn't implantation. I really don't know what else could cause that to happen though? Any ideas? I'm just going to wait it out and see what happens today. It might just be a brief respite and AF could get started properly this afternoon/evening. My temp was down again this morning, so I'm not expecting any miracles. I just wish I wasn't dealing with this uncertainty with the anniversary of learning of our mm/c tomorrow (I have always felt the day we found out was the day we lost her, rather than the d&c 4 days later, not that the anniversary of the d&c will be a fun day either). Or maybe this is trying to distract me from it? Ugh, I just want to crawl under a rock for the next 5 days...

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CD 1 for me today

truly this ttc should not be so bloody hard. I lost 10kg's but to get to the weight where i fell pg with ds 3 i really need to lose 4 - 5 kg's
and honestly do you think i can find the motivation not on your life which is really making me cranky with myself cause i just want to fall pg
i dont think i could cope with waiting another 3 years to fall besides that i will be too old in 3 years, anyone got some motivation tips for me
i really need them cause chocolate looks really good at the moment

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Hi, I just want to clarafy (i think that's how you spell it if not sorry) a few things in my last text.

First of all i know all you lovely ladies are in the same boat and want to spend as less time here as posible and get your bfp asap.
What i ment when i said i dont think i could cope with 3 years of ttc i ment it took 3 years to fall pg with ds 3 and it consumed my life
everything was about falling pregnant it was just so heartbreaking each month, the disapointment, the emotional toll it took was just not good
and i have decided to only give myself to april and then give up and just be happy. And as for getting too old i did not mean it like that i ment every
lady in my family has gone through early menopause usually early 40's it starts

[Mel_B1981]

Mel, hi and welcome! I'm sorry to hear you've had such a difficult time recently. I hope that's the last of your misfortune for a long time. Please let me know when/if you would like to be added to the list. I just need to know where you are in your cycle (eg cycle day, dpo or just "waiting for AF").

Will do! Don't know what DPO stands for but I'm sure I'll work it out between now and when I get there.

[juniper76]

Saturday 5th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Juniper - CD1
Rai - CD2
Sarah4Kurt - CD7
Nic - CD7
Treenie86 - CD15
Me4ever - CD16
N2L - CD17
Furbabies - CD26
Emma - CD27
Faye* - CD40


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Wishanddream - CD26 - faint BFP on HPT!!!
Jo_white - CD27 9dpo
Beau30 - CD30 9dp5dt


Got Their BFP in January


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

[juniper76]

w&d, yay! FX for you! Let me know when you want to make it official and move to the BFP section of the list!

[juniper76]

Sunday 6th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Faye* - CD1
Juniper - CD2
Rai - CD3
Sarah4Kurt - CD8
Nic - CD8
Treenie86 - CD16
Me4ever - CD17
N2L - CD18
Furbabies - CD27
Emma - CD28


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Wishanddream - CD27 - BFP on HPT!!!
Jo_white - CD28 10dpo
Beau30 - CD31 10dp5dt


Got Their BFP in January


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

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w&d - everything crossed for you tomorrow getting a BFP

kass - welcome the ladies here are wonderful, hoping your stay is short and sweet


AFM - Think i'm going to cancel acupunture this month till school starts to make it easier and also i dont have very much if any hope this month
i'm on clomid again this round which i'm not happy about. I fell pg with ds2 first round of clomid but was on it so many times in the years trying to
fall with ds3 that i have no faith in clomid at all i just cant wait till next cycle to start the injections hopefully that will give me a better chance of falling
pg something has to.

[juniper76]

Monday 7th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Faye* - CD2
Juniper - CD3
Rai - CD4
Sarah4Kurt - CD9
Nic - CD9
Treenie86 - CD17
Me4ever - CD18
N2L - CD19
Furbabies - CD28
Emma - CD29


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Wishanddream - CD28 - BFP on HPT!!!
Jo_white - CD29 11dpo
Beau30 - CD32 11dp5dt


Got Their BFP in January


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

[Mel_B1981]

Honestly starting to get scared now about our first appointment with Fertility Centre. It's less than 5 weeks away, and with all the dramas that have prevented us from proceeding with IVF in the past it's really got me worried about what this next 5 weeks will bring.

[kbudgie]

my first day back at work today. I have some good friends there so it made it easier. hard to knows what to say when people ask how was my break, i want to say yeah aside from having a miscarriage and struggling not to cry everyday for the last few weeks it was great thanks.

Mel i had an appointment with the clinic in dandenong but canceled before we had it as we got our bfp, we have decided to go there again if we have no luck within 3 cycles so i might bump into you lol

[Mel_B1981]

Hugs to you kbudgie.

Maybe we might bump into each other there. It would be nice to meet some people going through IVF and being able to talk to people who know what it's all about...although living so remotely, I would guess this forum is possibly going to become my safe haven.

[juniper76]

Tuesday 8th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Faye* - CD3
Juniper - CD4
Rai - CD5
Sarah4Kurt - CD10
Nic - CD10
Treenie86 - CD18
Me4ever - CD19
N2L - CD20
Furbabies - CD29
Emma - CD30


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Wishanddream - CD29 - BFP on HPT!!!
Jo_white - CD30 12dpo
Beau30 - CD33 12dp5dt


Got Their BFP in January


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

[juniper76]

Wednesday 9th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Faye* - CD4
Juniper - CD5
Rai - CD6
Sarah4Kurt - CD11
Nic - CD11
Treenie86 - CD19
Me4ever - CD20
N2L - CD21
Furbabies - CD30
Emma - CD31


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)
Jo_white - CD31 13dpo


Got Their BFP in January
Wishanddream - 9/1: hCG 208!
Beau30 - 9/1: hCG 266@18dpo!


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl

[juniper76]

w&d, yay! Congrats!

Wouldn't it be awesome if we could add 3 names to the BFP list in one day?! FX for the test results, ladies!

[juniper76]

Thursday 10th January 2013


Waiting for EPU/O/IUI/FET or just something to happen!
Kerbear - taking a break
Myturn - taking a break
Blossom - taking a break until Feb/Mar
kbudgie - waiting for AF
Jo_white - CD1
Faye* - CD5
Juniper - CD6
Rai - CD7
Sarah4Kurt - CD12
Nic - CD12
Treenie86 - CD20
Me4ever - CD21
N2L - CD22
Furbabies - CD31
Emma - CD32


Waiting for Transfer


Hanging out in the TWW (Stalk them here....https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums/...ek-Wait-2012-8)


Got Their BFP in January
Wishanddream - 9/1: hCG 208!
Beau30 - 9/1: hCG 266@18dpo!


M.I.A. - Please Update When Possible
Rosemarry006, Emerald Star, Curtysgirl