babyface - i'm so sorry hun - wish there was something more i could say to help you. take care tomorrow and into the future

ellie - it sucks that you have to meet with HER - but being mediated i'd be putting in an appearance - and giving it to her double barreled! i've had a supervisor that did some really ordinary things similar to yours, and i ended up firstly trying to address it, and then putting ina formal complaint - she now has been put on notice that one more incident and she's out (and for someone in upper management, that didn't sit to well - but stiff, she did the wrong thing) - good luck hun