Hi Kim,

Just wanted to say that I know exactly where you're coming from...
SIL had her first baby in August last year, and is already 3 months PG with baby no 2..... that will be 2 babies in a year!!!!!!!!!
This is a woman that was never going to have children - wasn't interested, and is still suffering quite badly with post natal depression (her baby is 7 months old).
She had a baby because her DH desperately wanted it...
It truly makes you wonder about the sense of humour of the universe sometimes..... I often look at people that have children & either didn't want them, had them for the wrong reason, etc and are able to fall pg at the slightest thought of doing so... its just heart wrenching.
DH & I have been TTC before SIL even met her husband... and they have gotten married & conceived 2 babies and we're still stuck in the same spot as where we were 5 yrs ago
I ended up in a big fight with DH a few days ago because when all of this got a little on top of me (2 friends also giving birth in the last 2 weeks as well) I lost it a little, and his response was that he couldn't see my problem... we're not in competition with any of these people so why do I care.... theres just no point even arguing about it with him because he just doesn't get it
Saying that, though, I was FURIOUS with him at the time!
But what can we do....
I did what you are doing atm a few days ago... cried for the larger part of the day, and it just stinks because nothing can make you feel better.
Sending lots of hugs and wishes your way and hope you feel better soon....

Holly
xxx