Thanks for your support guys. Have had a crap day but will survive, there is no other option I guess.

The clinic said that the embryos pretty much stopped growing after four days, they wanted to give them the extra day to see if they would kick-start again but they didn't. They said the whole 'if they don't grow to blast, they wouldnt get you pregnant' but I think that's a load of crap, lots of people have gotten pregnant from 2 and 3 day embryos that weren't the best, and a lot of them wouldnt have made it to blastocyst stage.

I just can't believe that I went through all the drugs, the egg collection, the hormones, the money, and we don't even get a chance at having a baby from it.

DH is very upset, he wants us to change clinics etc but I don't want to, not now. We are at Fert WA in Bethesda. I do like it there in the sense that I know the people and trust them, but at the same time, they aren't delivering results which is the number one thing. My friend has just got a job at Pivet as a research assistant, and she is going to find some information out for me from there shortly.

I don't know what the next step is for us. Probably have to go back to traditional IVF and all the drugs and cost that comes with it, or alternatively keep going with IVM and do transfers at day3. I want to really push for double embryo transfer. We have discussed the chances of twins and are more than happy to take that risk.