LOL at more than two crosses Nic! when i first went onto clomid last year we talked about charting for a while - i didn't have a really accurate thermometer, but we gave it a go anyway - we were both on leave, and i was doing an update at the end of the second week - DH looked over my shoulder and asked about the crosses - of the 14 days, there was only 1 with no crosses at all, and only 3 with only one cross (it was holidays, we were relaxing!! LOL) - DH was so proud of his efforts - but asked me what had happened on the one day without a cross! men are just hopeless when it comes to sex!

the reason to DTD next day is incase ovulation is late at all - makes sure that there are boys where they should be at the right time. the comment was "live a normal life today, but don't over exert yourself. make sure you dtd tomorrow morning, and then as often as you want to after that!" - like he needed medical encouragement!!! thank god he's so understanding when i'm crook - he hasn't taken the comments as literally as some guys would - he's leaving it entirely up to me!