Zap best of luck for you IUI next month. Big Hugs Dream Bub, thinking of you, this is so tough any time let alone when your friends are all getting pregnant.
Well i know i said i wouldn't get an IUI in before xmas, well curiosity got the better of me so i bought an OPK Clearblue Digital, and i am surging and i am going in for an ultrasound and a blood test and hopefully an IUI later today.
I'm impulive like that sometimes, i like to call it spur of the moment, but hmmm, waiting until after christmas when i really havent been doing anything to ttc since august'ish.
I didnt want to waste my few months of enhanced fertility after the HSG thingy, i wont be able to do next month tho because of xmas, but heres hoping i wont have to!!
Dreambub - hopefully it's just too early to get a bfp.
I'm happy for your friend but isn't also a little unfair that some women can just fall pg with hardly a thought at all.
Yes it would be nice if you could also fall pg & share the experience with her, I will have my for you.
Zap - hope af doesn't arrive this week, fingers crossed your feeling emotional for other reasons.
Twomums - with your IUI.
Well Af definately arrived yesterday & boy what a dissapointment.
I had been fairly good about bfn in recent months but this month it really hit me, I guess I figured having the endo treated would magically fix everything & I would get a bfp.
I was feeling really + this month as well, I guess that doesn't work either.
I think too I am really upset because having the endo treated I thought the really bad af pains would go but it's just the same which worries me a little.
Does this mean some endo was left in or has it come back already, surely not.
The doc said he would like us to wait 3-6 months after lap. to see if we could fall pg which he said I could probably hold out the 6 months because my af would be better but it's not.
I am quite tempted to ring & make an appoinment for January which is only 3 months after lap but I don't think I can put up with af like this for another 6 months (it's running my life) & at this stage I just can't see myself ever falling pg.
I remember this time last year thinking how good it would be to tell everyone at xmas that I was pg & it's not going to happen again this year either, I think we are going to have to start telling people we are having problems because everyone keeps asking when are we going to have kids, little do they know we have been ttc for 18 months.
I'm at myself for feeling so down atm but I really just can't help it.
Oh Jo dont be angry at yourself for feeling down, you are allowed to feel what ever you feel whenever you feel it. You've had a big dissapointment after being through the surgery and everything, don't be so hard on yourself. Or your body, it is probably just settling down after having the endo removed. Big Hugs xxx
The IUI is done, when my doc put the speculum in he said all the mechanics look right on for ovulation so at least we are in for the running. So i am officially in the TWW now. Had bloods taken just in case but he said that i am about to pop any minute so there will be some little swimmers waiting to meet my egg hopefully!!
Hi all, a little bit to catch up on and it is great to read all your posts. Hope all are doing well
Megan - Thanks for your support and you are right, I would rather good eggs, then heaps of alright ones. They keep saing all it takes is one!
Two mums - Thanks for the welcome and sorry to hear about your precedure. Sounds like a quick recovery so for a good outcome with your current cycle
dream bub - Sorry to hear the news and please don't beat yourself up with feeling angry and frustrated, totally understandable. You can't help asking the Why's and How comes and feel jealous of those who seem to have no problems. I beleive what doesn't break you makes you stronger but it is OK to feel sorry for yourself and be angry, but then you get back on that horse and try again. I hope you do get a little angel sooner rather then later That is what I love most about this forum, you can vent and there are so many great ladies hear for support. Fantasic!
Update on me: Day 11 BT & US today. Everything is looking good, found 27 follies today, which I was surprised to see, as only seen 17 on Friday. Another BT in the morning and it looks like EPU will be on Thursday. Now a little nervous and I keep thinking what if they pop all the follies and find no eggs, but I am trying to stay positive and think this will be fine, but I guess time will tell
Wow, sounds like there is quite a few of us in the TWW, hope all of us can come out the other side with some very happy news to share
Twomums - reading about your procedure had me cringing! Hope you are doing well.
Jo - my Dr told us the same about waiting 6 months after the lap, but there is no way i could wait that long so we've made an appointment with him tonight, we're coming up to our 4th month after the lap so hoping he'll refer me onto a FS and we can get the ball rolling with whatever else they think might work for us. If he doesn't give me a referal then I'm just going to go back to my GP and get one.
Not sure if it makes a difference or not that I am on IVF but I had a laparascopy (for endo & PCOS) last year in April and a FET 8 weeks later? Doc didnt seem to be concerned.
SHAZ
Dream Bub - Have you POAS today or yesterday? Maybe sunday was too early to do a HPT who knows...
Zap - I agree hopefully its pregnancy hormones making you emotional, don't write this cycle off yet!!
Nic and Boo and Lou - Good luck with the TWW fingers crossed for you all!
Well my doc rang today and i am scheduled for another IUI at 10am today, my bloods came back and my LH was still 77 at lunchtime yesterday, so i did another OPK today and it came back negative so the LH drop is today so ovulation will most likely happen any minute!! He thought a double IUI would give me the best chance for this cycle!! So here we go again, i dont mind tho!!
Firstly it would be about bloody right that there are so many in the TWW when I won't be around to see how many BFPs we're going to get in here!
And that's because this Saturday, I'm off to Singapore for 2 weeks! It'll mean I won't be around to answer questions, give advice, take complaints, or to do any modding at all from the 2nd of Dec to the 18th of Dec.
But as we are now not going to be updating your details on the front page, which the view to removing them completely by the start of the next thread, you guys shouldn't miss me too much.
Good luck to all you lovely ladies and may you all get your hearts' desires this Christmas.
Well im back and im not holding out much hope for thios cycle.
My temps were up to 37 and now there down to about 36.46 so i dont know whats going on. only time will tell i guess. TF was on Monday and i had a 5 cell and a 3 cell put back. wondering if i should test next week or wait for BT.
I will be in again soon for personals but so so busy at work at the mo and wont b home til after 9ish so i hope to hear good news from you all 2morrow
Sushee - have a fantastic time in Singapore, I love Singapore.
Dream Bub - sorry to hear that AF arrived. Is this the first time you've tried acupuncture? I'm in my second month of trying it and have noticed alot of positive changes.
Loula your temp drop is just your body playing tricks on you, I would've thought that 36.46 was still a pretty high temp?
Well we had our appointment last night, he has finally given us the go ahead to take the next step. It turns out that he also works as a FS one day a week at the fertility clinic here so we're going to book in to see him - only thing is he's away until late January so we won't be able to see him until then. He's given us the option of either IUI or IVF but he was more leaning towards IVF but we've got a little time to make our minds up - DH has already pretty much set he's mind on IVF but i'm not so sure - I'm off to do some research to find out more about it.
HI ladies well it happened again i wrote a long post and then ...................gone ..............so here goes again
firstly sorry for being a bit of a yo yo and popping in and out of here but some days its hard to keep up and im TRYING to rest.lol
Boo - Fantastic news that you are feeling like you are getting somewhere. and its nice to hear that your Doc will fo0llow through with you to be your FS(if thats what you want?) I would also be looking into IUI if that was a choice for us. if it means less drugs or less intervention then id give it a go. let me know how you get on as i know nothing about it, sorry
DB - im so sorry to hear that AF arrived. I must say i felt like my ovaries had taken a beating after my last PU too, so glad ot was canciled. Taking herbs is great and this will help you with all your worries. I wish i could come and give you a hug. Im here if you want to talk
Sushee - wow can i come i wont take up too much room and ive be very quiet. are the family going with you? DH and i said we must stay longer in Singapore next time we fly to see family in UK, although im hoping to take twins with us.lol Have a fab time
2Mums - another WOW i cant believe how youve gone from next year to having IUI NOW. Im so excited for you and praying that your Christmas bub will be anounced for you xx
Jane - thank you so much for your words now get back to keeping my seat warm in the pg thread. i hope you are feeling well and that MS is mot treating you too badly although its a reasuring sign
DJTTC - do what makes you feel better go with your gut feeling - my FS told me it is better to do IVF straight after surgery but i guess it depends what your having done mine was my tubes tied. good luck hun.
Nic - what are you up too?
Macca - are you in the TWW? How are you doing ?
Well ladies that brings it to me as im off to work as soon as im done
As you know we had Tf on Monday - one 5 cell and one 3 cell. *TMI* yesterday at work i noticed a little pink tinge on my pad and im haveing a few bits of crinone leak out. so last night i started to use the pessaries, although i still have 6 crinone left but i think the pessaries are a stronger dose.
Dont really know how to feel at the mo ive usually got sore bb by now but nothing and im feeling preety good - some moments i even forget that ive had a TF.lol
Also what do people tink about testing b4 BT?dont know wether to or not did last time got BFP but BT said it wasnt viable so very confused this time
Have a great day everyone and i hope to see you all outa here by Christmas.
Loula - Good luck in the 2ww, and thanks for the hugs.
Nic & Boo - My accupuncturist/harbalist guy is David McLeod of Healthwise in Wickham Tce. Didnt use him last time (I was too busy) and only got 14 eggs, time b4 that when I did use him I got 20 eggs at EPU. I am hoping for more eggs but more importnatly better quality, as I never have any to freeze.
:mad: If I did I couldhave had a FET b4 Christmas. have you guys had any quality issues and do you think natural remedies has helped?
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