BecD The situation with your brother and his GF really sucks to put it bluntly. Just doesn't seem fait that some people can just pop babies out willy nilly , then not care for them properly. Must be very tough for you to be so close to it all.
About today..... WTF! I don't get why you can't make that choice yourself. As long as you are fully informed of all the risks with multiples etc, bottom line is that its your body and your embies!
Praying you did get one good sticky one!

Neptune - hopefully you don't need to many days on the orgalutron

Molly - Thanks for the encouragement. Sounds like you've had a great result so far so praying Monday goes ahead and all the rest stay in the freezer until its time for no2!

Jen34 - welcome to BB and wishing you all the best for your IVF cycle. Hopefully it will be your last!
The women around here are womderful and will offer you endless support plus great words of wisdom about anything and everything to do with ART

Possums - Hope AF goes soon. So hard not to stare at bellies and babies eh? It can make you really sad but you just can't look away... know that feeling soo well!

Tania - may xmas and new year pass swiftly for you so that 2009 can bring renewed hope for the best gift ever

Mels77- I think you have your priorities set just right atm. You can always work, but making a family is not something that can wait forever. The last thing you need on this tortuous journey, is to feel that you haven't done this or that or 'what if?" Praying this FET goes well and that you get your xmas BFP just in time

AFM - feeling ok in general, just headachey and tender ovaries but not to bad. Very anxious about tomorrow's EPU but excited to get going into the next phase of this cycle. Just want enough embies to do PGD and hopefuly get at l;east a couple of normals.