Emerald Star good point I've never even thought about the eggs older women use. I think sometimes I can get absorbed into my own situation. I often think about my own eggs at this stage I have 5 that are still 39 so I really hope one of these work. Don't give up hope I have a friend who feel pregnant at 43..I suppose in the end it's your decison and choice to make but when you start to doubt think back to a time when you wanted something and eventually it came your way. When I have bad days I think of my DH and how he came back into my life...we were friends for 10 years both married other partners and then met up again through mutual friends...I hoped that one day I would find the love of my life to have a family with..part 1 happened now for part 2