Hi Nat ... a few books that can recommend:
Getting Pregnant the Hard Way. It's written from a male perspective who has been diagnosed with poor sperm. It was a practical yet enternating read. Cant remember author name - but can check it out as have it at home.
Also IVF & Ever After. The first 1/4 of book is about how to prepare mind and body for IVF and the psychological effect on your mind. The rest is about the pregnancy. Havent read that bit as figured will wait till am PG.
There is also another one that want to go out and buy which saw on the Morning Show. I believe it is called Making Babies: IVF Stories. Saw it at Dymocks but was in a rush so didnt get a chance to buy it.
Some of the other gals have mentioned: Spirit BAbies. I havent found that one in any books shops though.

Rols, when I asked them if it was the sperm or egg, they said it was the egg quality. They fertilised but then fragmented and didnt divide properly. At least had one! As only takes one! But still was pretty gutted!
Mon