Rols

there is a chance your wife may have had implantation occur and then lost the baby = even your clinic acknowledged that - and no one willhave a go at you for feeling sad about it - ivf/ac is damn hard emotionally on both you and your DW - and to have things looking soooo good and then have them torn away = well, i'd be worried if that didn't upset you!

as you know, we only had our BFP for 2.5 days - it doesn't mean that it doesn't still hurt - i can completely sympathise with you - yes, i know people who've had longer to "be pregnant" before they've lost their angels, but we all want this, and it makes it damn hard, no matter how far along we are

take care
BG