Congrats Mumof5 that's Fantastic
Rols - I couldn't agree more from what the others have said. It doesn't matter how long you were pregnant for it still hurts. I think you start to get attached once you know you have fertilisation, as I did. Sometimes people forget that this is just as hard on the guy as it is for the girl.
I think it will also do your DW some good to be on a little holiday as hopefully this can distract her for a little while. The way I try to get through this (but it may be different for others) is I try to book things up and till my next transfer just to make the time go quicker until the next transfer. I would organise holidays down south, concerts, dinners with friends etc. It doesn't take away the pain but it just makes me not think about it all the time

Ellie - I am at Hollywood Fertility Clinic with Dr Perkins. I am really happy with my doctor but the clinic won't transfer more than one due to having twins