LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #4

[intheslowlane]

Hi everyone,

Hope you don't mind me joining in rather late in the day.

We've just had a FET this month, our 4th this year and will be having our BT this friday. Hope it all works out as we've made the discision to call it quits after our store of 6 snowbabes is gone. It is starting to get hard.

Hope it goes well T-hopes, sure it will and to everyone else too (haven't got through the whole thread yet, sorry )

[damprye]

I think I really have to put my TTC efforts on hold. I don't know if I want to stay with my DP. I know it probably sounds stupid after all this time but unless I know I do not want to be with this new person in my life... then I really cannot start a family with DP.

[possum magic]

T-hopes good luck for tomorrow! What did you decide? Is it an egg pick up tomorrow and then IVF or is it IUI? (Sorry i'm a bit confused on the technicalities but also with the BB threads going nuts-o there's all these posts missing as well as multiple threads going at once it's also hard to read back and try and figure it out on my own!) Lucky you with the grand final tickets (not that i'm an AFL football fan - we're a rugby family- but i hear they are hard to get?) Something (else) to look forward to : ) (By the way: that's meant to be a red face above in my post but i think BB still has some glitches cos although it said 'red face' in the smiley box it looks more like a smug grin to me!)

Damprye: Oh no! Sorry things have got difficult again. Hope you find some answers soon. Hugs

intheslowlane: praying that this FET works for you and you have a little brother or sister for your DS.

[intheslowlane]

Hi Damprye,

Hope it gets better for you.

[T-hopes]

lol possum! it does look like a smug face!! hehehe!! And tomorrow will be IUI, we will start IVF next cycle. And yeah. tickets are very hard to get but were members so we are guaranteed them so were lucky xx

damprye - sorry to hear things arent going well with dp, hope you can work thru it or find the strength to do what is best, good idea to put ttc aside though if your not sure xx

intheslowlane - good luck for bt on friday! praying you get a bfp, keep us posted! Hope the week goes fast for you! xx

[happybaby]

Hello everyone
This is just a quick update as I've been taking a break from BB. My scan at 7 weeks wasn't good news. There was a pg sack but no embryo. I was told to come back in a week and the pg sack had grown but it was still empty. The Dr said it's a missed mc.
I have an appointment with my FS on Wednesday to book a D & C as it could be weeks for a spontaneous mc to happen.
I am quite devastated and once I'm over this I hope I'm ready to try again.
Best of luck to everyone.
HappyBaby

[Saffy]

Happybaby- oh no, thats very sad news. I'm sorry it didn't work out this time, we are here for you when you are reay to try again, but in the meantime take care sweetie xx

THopes- yay for today! I hope everything goes great! My DH is a Saints supporter too, he would be jealous that you are going to the GF, i am Geelong

Possum-enjoy your 2 weeks off, I'm sure it will go quickly. GL with the new job are you nervous?

Damprye- I'm sorry hun, you must feel very confused. I guess if you are having doubts its better to take some time to work it out, whatever you decide we wll be here to listen

intheslowlane- welcome! Wow you are in the thick of it, it must be hard to make that decision but hopefully a nice BFP will be coming your way this Friday!! How are you filling in the week wiothout going crazy??

ALice-hi love, did you get the resul;ts of the BT yet? Hope its good. I got vile headaches from the syneral and I couldn't lift my head or have the lights on, has it gone away yet?

SammyP- I think the US people can see the follicles ( they just haven't grown yet) which shows that there are lots of eggs left, sounds like your scan went well I would definately go to Bali, even if you are pregnant you can travel up until about 30-something weeks ( depending on your risk factors) and around the 20wk mark is the best time i think. I constantly put things off cos of thinking I might be pregnant but I am sick of it so am organising a trip to UK next year to visit DH's family.

Hi Sunbeam, Matthew'smum, Ferals, Jupiter, Mildez, Porsche

AFM- well I am in no man's land. Contrary to what I insisted was going to happen my spotting stopped after 2 days, nothing since, no AF, no pregnancy symptoms at all so I guess I am just waiting to see whats going to happen. Because I think I O'd the Friday after stopping my meds, AF probably wouldn't even be due until end of this week?? I did a POAS today but it was BFN, which I knew would be the case as I have completely soft boobies so am sure I am not pregnant. Will just have to wait it out. My hormones are all over the place too I am teary and had a massive fight w DH on Sat just before we left to go up to my sisters for her birthday.

[intheslowlane]

Hi Happy Baby,

That is traumatic news. I'm so sorry. Your Dr is right though. As sad as a D&C is, it's the mc my DH and I will never get over.

Crying for you and lots of hugs

[Porsche]

Hello everyone
This is just a quick update as I've been taking a break from BB. My scan at 7 weeks wasn't good news. There was a pg sack but no embryo. I was told to come back in a week and the pg sack had grown but it was still empty. The Dr said it's a missed mc.
I have an appointment with my FS on Wednesday to book a D & C as it could be weeks for a spontaneous mc to happen.
I am quite devastated and once I'm over this I hope I'm ready to try again.
Best of luck to everyone.
HappyBaby

Oh Happy I'm so sorry. I've had a missed miscarriage as well and it's not what you are expecting when you have your scan. Take care of you GBH.