oh Saffy, just read the end of your post. Sorry you had a fight with your DH but totally understandable when you feel your hormones are all over the place. I hope you've been able to sort things out and that your evening wasn't all bad. It's great that the spotting stopped...and I hope she stays away - lots of women say they don't get any symptoms to begin with so I'll be keeping my fingers crossed

Damprye, I'm sorry things are so up in the air with your DP trying to conceive is hard enough without that going on too, I agree with you that maybe it's best to see how things work out before trying again. In the meantime you could start taking the Vitex and hopefully then if things do improve you will have had some time to get your hormones working a bit better for you. Good luck and let us know how you are going x

Intheslowlane, welcome to the thread and all the best for Friday. I hope you have a good strong embie snuggling in there and that you will get your BFP this time.

T-hopes, LOL at you poas just to see those two lines! You know, I think you might have convinced me to do it too since I never did one when I was pregnant last year and it'd be nice to have! I remember telling my DH I was going to have another pregnyl shot just so I could get a phone call from the clinic saying I was pg 'cause I'd never had that. Didn't need to in the end but funny thinking of it now. Hope you get another two-liner very soon!

Hi Possum! Congrats on the new job. Did you get a break inbetween this and the old one? I think you did the right thing and hopefully you've tempted fate and you'll have to have that 12 week conversation after all!

SammyP, that's great news about your egg reserve! Are you going to be trying around 'o' now you know which day it will be? With the trip to Bali, I would definitely go. I have put off so many things in the past ten years in the anticipation that I might be pg by then - staying in jobs so I could get the maternity leave even when I hated them, not committing to family holidays - I would definitely agree to go. A friend told me recently that you can get travel insurance if you are doing IVF and have to cancel a trip. Your family would all understand and it might be that you are well enough to go anyway. You know that old saying - life is what happens to us while we are busy making plans - make some plans and have something exciting to look forward to! x

MatthewsMum, hope the break this month helps and you have a renewed energy for things soon. I haven't heard of that treatment but I have heard that in the States it is common to remove any remaining tubes once one has been taken out due to complications. Even the TCM practitioner recommends it, which is interesting. I've been having herbs to help clean mine out and will be taking antibiotics to help with any possible low level infections with this cycle. Let us know what you find out and enjoy spending time with your family this month x

Sunbeam, I hope you enjoyed having the baby to stay. Oh they smell so good, don't they? I loved reading about your hope blanket, I think that is a lovely idea. I crochet too - started by doing baby blankets for friends. I have a half finished one in there that I look at and wonder if it will be for me. I hope you get to wrap your baby up in your hope blanket soon. How are you going with your cycle? You're a day in front of me I think - when is your first us? Good luck lovely x

Crafty, I hope your craft room is up and organised soon! I can just imagine how much stuff you have - fabric and wool and lovely things waiting to be made. Are the boxes slowly being unpacked? My brother moved the same time as you and I know it is taking some time to get through it all. Hope you are feeling more settled and enjoying having your own place again.

Mildez, Porsche, and anyone else we haven't heard from in a while that I've missed - hope you are all doing really well. And to our stalkers too lovely women, it's nice knowing you are there keeping an eye on us all and sending BFP vibes our way! I hope we get to join you soon.

AFM, well missed my bt yesterday 'cause I just wasn't feeling well enough for a three hour round trip so went this morning. Still got a bad headache but hope it goes soon - shoulders are very stiff and sore so don't know whether I'm fighting off a bug or if it is from the drugs, either way I think I must be a bit stressed because of the tension in my back and neck so I'm going to organise a massage and hope that makes things better. No more news yet - will pop in later to see how T-hopes went x