Hi ladies, sorry, been out of touch for a few days. finding it hard to get on at the moment (we've been sick, new job etc)

T-Hopes: Congratulations!!!
I'll be stalking you my friend!

Luna: Hooray!!! Great news on the BFP!

Alice: I was cringing reading about your ordeal. So sorry you've had to go through the wringer to get to where you are. I'm glad you now have your embies on board. Will pray really hard for you that all goes smoothly from now on. You sooooo deserve it!

Saffy: bah! AF! Hope the old witch doesn't bother you again for a looooong time.

Craftymummy: That first day of AF is always a hard one and you've had a long difficult journey. We'll support you whatever you decide. Take care.

Porsche: hope you are well ; )

India'smum: i was a bit thrown by the name change but guessed it was you from your signature. I like it! Sorry AF came. Hope the old witch doesn't bother you again for another 9mths either. I know what you mean about the gap between kids. I never imagined it would be this large for me either. But your kids will enjoy a special relationship even if they're further apart. Your DD will enjoy the 'big sister' role even more than if they're closer together. That's my hope for my DD anyway.

Ferrals: I totally don't get it either: there's some bizarre Murphy's pregnancy law where the most undeserving are the most fertile. Crossing fingers for you that you get a lovely clear look at your healthy baby's fingers and toes on Wednesday.

Sunbeam: hoping you will get the BFP even without strong symptoms (it can happen).

Clairesmummy: a fellow defector to this thread! welcome! Hope you get some answers to your questions soon...

Damprye: hope you are ok
Mathewsmum: not sure where you're up to with your osteo or other treatment. Hope you are well.

AFM: AF is finished and i'm due to have an U/S tomorrow to check that all is back to normal, one cycle after mc finally finished. BUt...i think i've changed my mind about TTC this month. Even if U/S looks good i don't know if i'm ready to TTC. I've just started a new job and i'm not sure i could handle the stress of a new job and then stewing over telling my new boss i'm pg just after i start there (assuming it happened quickly). My next pg (please let there be one) is going to be stressful enough with daily injections of clexane and extra tests for problems like thyroid that i've had in the past as well as fear of m/c. I think it's all a bit much. I think i'll see how i feel in a month but i'm thinking of giving myself til Dec or January before i TTC again.