Sunbeam-sorry it was a BFN the 1st ivf as always trial and error for your body so next time around it will know what it has to do.

Alice-No we have not told DH daughter just yet i am not confident enough that this bub is out of the woods and with DH daughter having a real hard time with Abbi's loss i dont want to do it to her again so i will hold off for as long as possible although she has looked at my belly a few times with a very inquisitive look so we cant hide it to much longer.
We did show the boys bubs u/s and they loved it and thought she looked perfect they asked what name we have chosen and we told them the truth that we still have a bit of testing to go before we can relax but they need to know what is going on as we have been having lots of appointments ect and they are old enough to know.
It is ashame that we still cant totally enjoy this pregnancy there is to many what if's but we are getting closer to an answer.