Oh girls- heres a big for everyone, sorry everything is so crappy for you all

Alice- oh dear, what can I say, I'm soooo sorry, you shouldn't have to go through this,you have done eeverything right and been so good, its so unfair Theres no 'putting up' with you, it is a pleasure and we all want to see you happy x

Craftymummy- it must be so hard to be far away from your child and grandchild. You have had a lot on your plate with moving etc so be kind to yourself. Where did you get clomid?? My moods was fine on it for the first 2 months then the 3rd month I was a mess. you may as well start with it GL x

Matthewsmum- how are you going?? How is the acupuncture and chiro ( or was it osteo? you were having)

Sunbeam- sorry your housemate didn't behave in a more mature manner and is leaving you in the lurch. I lived by myself for years and love it, I hope you will enjoy having your own space for a while.

Claresmummy- did you get a test?? DO IT, DO IT!

Luna- have you had a scan?? Its hard not to have a "primary carer" and just have to rely on whoever you get on the phone. I think there is a good chance you are still pregnant, like Sunbeam said, if your BHCG is rising still. I SOO hope it is all ok for you xx

Possummagic- very exciting development ( the cramping) sounds a bit like implantation, which you definately could get if you o'd last wed/thurs- the timing sounds about right. No BD fest for me, I am spotting heavily on the pill, annoying and messy for BD ( sorry if TMI)

HI India'smum, Toomanyshoes, Damprye ( if you are still lurking) , Ferals, Mildez, Porsche, THopes ( how are you?), who else I always seem to miss someone.

Went out for lunch with my friend from the uk with her 6 month old IVF baby-sooo cute. There was another girlfriend there who is doing IVF with her girlfrend, their cycle is about the same time as mine, so our UK friend was giving us lots of support/advice and being so positive it was great!