Alice: I can feel the ache as you write and so wish things did not have to be this hard for you. I hope that you will still get to be a mum in one way or another. You seem to have lots of love to give. In the meantime, i hope you don't begrudge yourself a little foodie comfort. We all do what we can to get by and a little wine, cake and chocolate are not such a terrible thing. (Well, it works for me anyhow- the cake and chocolate at least. I don't have much of a taste for wine). Maybe too it's the limbo time that is the hardest. You've just finished a cycle and maybe are wondering what to do next? When you have a more definite plan (whether it be a time frame for having your 'frostie' or going on the list for fostering) perhaps you will start to feel more energised?
Luna: sorry to hear about your ectopic but glad they found it before it did damage to your tubes. I'm sad for you that you face another TTC wait but hope that it will go quickly for you. I was told i might need methotrexate to clear my last pregnancy. The issue with it (and why you have to wait to TTC) seemed to be that it decreases folate stores. I asked my dr whether i could have a blood test to check my body had enough folate before trying again and he seemed to think so. Just thought i'd pass on this information in case it's of help to you.
India's mum: Sorry AF arrived and that you are having some health problems. I hope things look up for you this month.
Ferrals: So lovely to hear that you are enjoying your pregnancy and to think of all the excitement for all your kids thinking about the baby sister that is coming.
Saffy: Good luck for EPU!
Craftymummy: we'll be in the TWW with you to keep you company : )
1and2=3: Welcome to Belly Belly. That is very hard that you have not yet had your dream fulfilled. Are you trying now without IVF or actively looking for egg donor?
Toomanyshoes, Clairesmummy and anyone else i missed, hi : )

AFM: Starting to get EWCM. It's only day 9 of my cycle. Not sure if this means i'm about to ovulate very early (it doesn't usually happen before day 12 for me) or whether this is a sign that 'o' is coming in 3 or 4 days. I can never remember whether EWCM is meant to start exactly at 'o' time or a few days before. Excited to be trying again this month knowing we are ready to TTC again without the uncertainty we had last month of whether to go for it or wait longer after mc.