To Luna and craftymummy9

I will be 47 in November, and have been trying for 2 yrs with my new man. Miscarried at 6-7wks in May 2009. Not that this is meant to cheer you up, but at least we have something in common-age. Don't know if I've told you, but we have very very minimal hope at using IVF bcos of my age, therefore our only hope is through a donor wherever she is. What makes me so upset when I come to think about it is that with all this technology they cannot enhance your egg quality. We've been married for nearly a year now, our anniversary in November and after I miscarried we made a conscience decision not to try for a bubby prior to the wedding for obvious reasons. Whether that was the right thing to do or not-whether through that decision we missed our only other chance I don't know, but sometimes it has me thinking. But of course when November came around we were raring to go and off course nothing happened. Then got bad news back that my levels and ovarian reserve were good or what the doctor would say "they were consistant with my age" iF I have one more professional tell me that I will scream.

I/we would dearly love to have a child, I don't know how its gonna happen or if it will ever happen. What we really want is to hear from a little guardian angel-if you know what I mean

So would love to hear some more stories from older trying to be mummies again