LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #8

[Joeve]

Saffy I am so pleased to read your news!!!!
MM try and stay positive xxx

[minniemouse]

thanks girls but i have resigned myself to the fact its over, im refusing to have another scan, just can't see bub now with no heartbeat, i might have bloods next week to see if they are dropping yet, my only problem is im still on progesterone which im sure is a total waste of time, does anyone know if i will still bleed while on them ?

sunbeam: how are you going in the 2ww ?

saffy: will you have more bloods done ?

[Matthew's Mum]

hi ladies,minniemouse-i've bleed on the pessaries,as you know i'm on the coast,so my hand is on offer for holding if you want for blood tests,dr apps,waiting for the phone to ring etc...sunbeam-when are you due to test???

[craftymummy9]

Firstly big congratulations saffy brilliant news so thrilled for you.
minnie try to stay calm it's normal to have some spotting I have and went on to deliver healthy baby.
Sunbeam any news?
afm day 29 nothing happening no AF no nothing mmmm early days yet

[Saffy]

yeah sunbeam hows the tww??

crafty- no af yet? when does she normally make her unwanted appearance??

minnie- *hugs*, wish I could make it better for you. I'm not going to have any more bloods, just scan in a few weeks, I'm happy ot wait it out

joeve- thanks

[Fraggle Rock]

Hi Everyone,

I was wondering if I could join this thread?? DH and I started TTC June 10 and had nothing for 6 cycles. Then MC, then 4 cylces, another MC and we have just started TTC again in the last couple of months.

I have been reading some of your stories and realised I am not the only one in this situation. The story is always sold that it will be easy (and it has been for most people I know). One good friend said I should try BB as I have been really down of late.

Thank you for sharing your stories. My AF is due Monday/Tuesday. Fairly sure she's on her way but always hoping...and very nervous.

[craftymummy9]

Saffy don't know what to think really as she normally arrives day 28 or 29 but the last 2 cycles had been 14 days apart if you remember so I have no idea. I have also had a 34 day cycle last year so at my age anything is possible. Have no symptoms at all not even a headache and that normally happens of late when AF is at the door.
Fraggle welcome to our part of the world sorry circumstances made it neccessary for you to be here but we all here for the same reason TTC after mc and we all know how sad life can be at times. If we can be of comfort to you we will

Trying not to analize everything atm this TWW is now going into 3WW
Sunbeam where are you I think your my TWW buddy !!!!

[minniemouse]

Matthewsmum: that is so sweet of you to offer that, at the moment I'm in denial mode, pretending it's not happening.

Crafty: I haven't had any spotting, I had a bad scan & low rising hcg. Fingers crossed for you

Saffy: thanks for the hugs

Fragglerock: sorry you have had to join us here, hope you don't have to stay too long

[craftymummy9]

Minnie I am sorry when you asked about bleeding I assumed you had some. Well that said then I think maybe you will be ok scans this early are not as accurate as at later stages and the fact your hcg did go up is a good sign isn't it sometimes I think knowing too much doesn't help try not to stress what will be will be and no spotting and no cramps is a good sign try to relax ! I have had a few scares over the years but not all ended bad. you will be ok

[Luna]

Safffy - congratulations!!! Very, very happy for you, this time it will be your time.

[Loops12]

Hey Lovely Ladies
I'm back from work summit - had a great time

Saffy ~ Yay! was very happy to see your BFP!!
Lots of coming your way.

Minnie ~ also lots of coming your way and (((GBH))). hope you can hang in there sweetie and all turns out ok!!

I too think I am going to try and have a break from BB. You ladies are the best but I'm finding out more and more friends that I've shared this journey with are getting PG and I think I kinda wanna just try and enjoy my life and try forget about TTC for a bit.I had a chat to my step-mum the other day who is a councellor and I think I agree with her that a break may do me some good.

Goodluck ladies! To the newbies - welcome and you will really find everyone in here to be terrific and so supportive!

[Sunbeam]

Good morning lovelies,

Minniemouse - We are all here for you sweetie but I think I'd be in denial too and I'd also be spending hours googling looking for hope. Still hoping for the best for you babe.

Crafty - I so hope AF stays away and for the right reason

Fraggle Rock - Welcome to our little thread I'm sorry it has been a hard road for you so far but you are in the right place. These ladies are awesome in their love and support and their collective knowledge about TCC is huge.

Saffy - You getting more symptoms yet? Any MS?

Loops - I hope you will pop in from time to time but I think a break is a good idea I've taken several over the years it is sometimes nice just to get on with life and forget about TCC as much as possible for a while. We'll miss you.

AFM - Its not even 7 o'clock on a sunday morning but I can't sleep in because I'm too excited about my birthday party which isn't for 4 weeks yet (I'm such a kid!! ) Got some awesome fabric yesterday from Spotlight to make myself a dress I'll post a photo when it's finished.
As for the TWW well the party planning has been good for taking my mind off it but I'm 8dpo today and apart from little bits of cramping no symptoms. Not even getting bigger veiny bbs that I usually get on the prog by now so no idea. I won't test till about thursday. Got a bit freaked yesterday when I realised that if I stick with my plan then I have about 5 more tries and that's it! The end of the TTC road! It'll be hard to quit but I am still very comfortable with my plan B.

[Porsche]

I'm sorry to say this in the same post but....... just got a

My BHCG was 150 and progesterone 140 so I am shaking with excitement, please be sticky little one, have just been on the phone crying to DH!!!!!!!

A very BIG congratulations Saffy! I'm praying like mad it's the stickiest of stickies for you!

[craftymummy9]

Hi ladies firstly goodbye to you loops I know its hard to say goodbye but you can always come back I think you are doing the right thing give yourself some me time. I have cut back a lot since 2yrs ago when I first joined so good luck and babydust to you while your not thinking about TTC I hope you still try to get a BFP and if you do let us know.
Saffy hope all is well
minnie any news ?
sunbeam enjoy your sewing and FX for a BFP on thurs/friday
everyone I have missed hope your doing ok and not too stressed

AFM well day 32 for me and still no nothing did a test sat and BFN but thinking about it I only got a faint opk on day 21 this month so maybe too early to test or maybe I just didn't ovulated who knows I guess AF will show up in her own unwelcome time

[minniemouse]

hi girls,

saffy: how are you going ?

loops: i understand the need to take a break

sunbeam: where are you in the 2ww ? i have lost track

crafty: sorry to hear about the bfn, hope that changes in the next few days


thanks for all your thoughts im just so confused and in limbo, it seems im still pregnant but the numbers aren't going up as they should, they were 14800 last wednesday and today was 19515, dr is cautious, basically saying it is still viable and growing but if it slow it might mean there is a problem. she has said to have a scan 2 weeks after the first which isn't for another 9 days.

i just don't know what to think, i really thought it was all over and now i don't know what to think, don't know if there is any hope and don't want to get my hopes up only to find them crushed in a few days, i have cried for days over this and it doesn't look like i will know much more anytime soon *sigh* why is it so hard

[Saffy]

minnie- thats horrible being in limbo, I really hope it works out, it sounds like you are still in with a chance anyway

sunbeam-I just realised your donor daddy is 24! Good stuf! Hope your party is coming together well, you will have a great time. Are you goingto be poas any time soon and wait it out??

crafty- sorry for bfn, but no af is always a good sign

Loops- I understand the need to step back for a while, best of luck chick and hopefully wewill get the pleasure of your company again soon xx

porsche- thanks hun!

Fragglerock- welcome and I hope you do get some help from BB, it has saved me many times, did your AF come yet ( I hope not xx)?

afm- no real symptoms here, but I am only 4.5 wks lol- sore boobs have arrived but no porno boobs like last time- spewing lol! Little bit of nausea in the morning and some occassional cramping but otherwise I am feeling good!

[T-hopes]

*sneaks in*

SAFFY - CONGRATULATIONS my love!!! This is such wonderful news! Your levels are fabulous! Im so thrilled for you!! Gosh i havent been on BB in weeks but boy am i glad i logged in! Yayayyayaya! Gave me goosebumps! Sending lots of love and stickiness to you xx

[Saffy]

thanks Thopes!! Love seeing you again mate x

Sunbeam- anything happening?? Hows the dress going?

hi everyone else