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Hey Minnie, good luck with the next 11-12 days darl, FX for you...... And Craftymummy to is in here as well.
My appointment has been made with another DR this time he is a FS my appointment is next month on the 18th at 10am. DF and i are off to have our BT next week when he has his days off from work. Did an OPT today and it's neg. today is CD10 for me and I have a small amount of EWCM. Maybe I will O when I am meant to instead of CD20, FX.
Clairesmummy - Good on you for picking yourself back up and booking in with the FS I think it is your smartest move. Lets hope he has the answers. I'm glad we were able to support you sweetie that's what BB is all about
Saffy - Bring on AF and a brand new cycle.
Minniemouse - Yes we are a small group but a very special one
AFM- Still trying to get on top of my work doing 2 jobs. At least most of the time it keeps my mind off the TWW, the rest of the time.... !!! I won't be testing till saturday, how about my TWW buddies?
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sunbeam- wow, can't believe your tww has been so busy and preoccupying!! Good luck when you test, any symptoms?? You must be tired doing two jobs, hopefully it will settle down for you soon.
minniemouse-5dpo is good for sore boobs but as we both know it doesn't guarentee anything, hope your tww ends in a nice surprise!
claresmummy- I hope you O soon too, stuff waiting til CD20! Your appt will come around soon, and surely you will come out of it happier than the last one- hugs xx
hi everyone else
afm- still spotting no sign yet of AF but I am sure she is coming, so I don't care if it takes a few days.
I had a crisis of confidence over the weekend with my ttc. I decided to try to come to terms with the fact that it may never work and I may not have a baby, and i found when I put an end date to ivf, I felt so much better. I was thinking that my end may be turnng 40 and/or transferring my 3 frosties then doing one more stim cycle and calling it quits. I have felt so much better since I decided this in my mind ( haven't told DH yet), but i just want my life back, I am sick of always feeling depressed and upset all the time, and the thought of having a life without a baby now doesn't scare me as much as it did. I'm not saying I'm giving up on ivf or ttc, but I can't keep doing it forever and need to know theres an end date when I can get my life ( and money) back. Phew got that off my chest, probably should have put it in the ttc vent thread but its here, and we are only a small group anyway!! Thanks for listening!
saffy: big to you, this journey is so hard, i think it is a good idea to have an end date if it helps you, it does become all consuming, i can't imagine how hard it is for you. im lucky i already have 2 children and i feel greedy wanting another when some of you girls haven't gotten your first.
the thing about the "end date" is it isn't set in stone and if you get to that point you can always choose to continue if you want to
it does rule your life, i have everything crossed for you that you don't reach that deadline because you are holding that much wanted bundle (or bundles) in your arms by then
sunbeam: good to hear you are keeping busy in the 2ww, i hope it continues that way, im thinking of testing sat too (my birthday) but im only 10 dpo then so don't know if i should (will either ruin my birthday or make it !), i will try and hold out but i know the reality is i won't be able to, how many dpo will you be sat ?
clairesmummy: i hope those opt's turn positive for you, as you know im pleased you have made a fs appointment and i hope it brings good news
Thank you Minnie and Joeve.
How are you going Joeve? Haven't heard from you in awhile darl, are you still riding your horses? Hope all is well with you darl, you are always in my thoughts. xox.
Clairesmummy ~ so All the best for the next 9months!! He/she will be a very sticky one - stay pos!!
Minnie ~ you must have missed my post - BFN for me. Feeling pretty low and at the moment but it'll pass. Will miss you in here - all the best hun. Please drop in from time to time and let us know how you are going xo
thanks girls but i have resigned myself to the fact its over, im refusing to have another scan, just can't see bub now with no heartbeat, i might have bloods next week to see if they are dropping yet, my only problem is im still on progesterone which im sure is a total waste of time, does anyone know if i will still bleed while on them ?
hi ladies,minniemouse-i've bleed on the pessaries,as you know i'm on the coast,so my hand is on offer for holding if you want for blood tests,dr apps,waiting for the phone to ring etc...sunbeam-when are you due to test???
Firstly big congratulations saffy brilliant news so thrilled for you.
minnie try to stay calm it's normal to have some spotting I have and went on to deliver healthy baby.
Sunbeam any news?
afm day 29 nothing happening no AF no nothing mmmm early days yet
Saffy honey I am sorry hope that things go the right way next week and you get a nice surprise.
MM sweet I have been thinking of you and keep popping in here just to check on you. My time out from here has done wonders for my head but still thinking of everyone who goes through this stuff. Hugs xxx
loops: thanks for the thoughts any update from you ?
sunbeam: thanks to you also i think the mind can affect us a lot more than we realise and its possible that can be a barrier to you getting pregnant, i don't know how to avoid it though after you have been through multiple loses
saffy: thinking of you hoping things work out well for you
Rae: i don't think we have "met" so and thanks
craftymum: sorry your cycle is mucking you around, hopefully this time you get a strong positive opt
joeve: thanks for your pm, i meant to reply but haven't (obviously), how are things with you ?
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I won't be testing till saturday, how about my TWW buddies?
to you, this journey is so hard, i think it is a good idea to have an end date if it helps you, it does become all consuming, i can't imagine how hard it is for you. im lucky i already have 2 children and i feel greedy wanting another when some of you girls haven't gotten your first.
Congrats clairesmummy thats 2 this month already BFPs I mean we have to have a 3rd wonder who will be the Lucky lady !!!!
All the best for the next 9months!! He/she will be a very sticky one - stay pos!!
and thanks
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