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thread: LT TTC after Miscarriage or Loss #8

  1. #163
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    Hey Saffy - Think I'm heading for a BFN . Think I'll wait till friday to POAS. The dress is coming along nicely just have to do the straps. The party is all planned and invites sent. Yes donor boy is only 24 good young swimmers!

    Minnie - I hope things are still improving, I'm still hoping for you even if you have lost hope.

    Crafty - Any news?

    THopes - Good to see you.

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    sunbeam: im stalking you, have you tested ? i hope there is good news

    crafty: have you tested again ? or has af shown up ?

    afm: no change, still in limbo, will have another scan next week, still not hopeful

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    Hi girls,

    Minnie - When is your scan I will have everything crossed that it brings good news. Thinking of your sweetie.

    AFM- BFN as I suspected. I am a bit concerned about my prog. level. Even though I'd been on 600mg of pesseries per day it was still only 37.7! I'm thinking of getting a referral to an endochronologist to get my levels checked out properly. I stayed on the prog till last night in the hope that I can get AF to come around mon-tues so that if I have a good cycle I will be able to get my insems in in the 3 days before my birthday weekend.

    Hi to everyone I hope you are having a good weekend.

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    hi ladies,sunbeam-sorry it was bfn...fraggle rock-welcome to the thread,sorry for your losses...afm-one more try this month naturally,then fet in sept

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    Sunbeam- sorry to hear the bfn was real- bummer, I hope its 3rdtime lucky with new donor daddy, in the menatime have fun arranging your partyyyyyyyyy- woohoo!!

    hi matthewsmum- good luck for this month, hope its a money saving natural one xx

    hi everyone else, good luck!

    I am going really well, scan in 2 weeks time, it can't come quick enough!

  6. #168
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    hi girls,

    sunbeam: thanks for the thoughts, unfortunately i had another blood test friday and it showed my levels had dropped by 2000 (19000 to 17000) so the dr has said it is a non viable pregnancy, i will have a scan wednesday just to confirm that.
    sorry about the bfn, interesting about your progesterone, does seem low for all the progesterone you are on, what more can you do to increase it ?
    i hope af cooperates for you and you can work things around your birthday (when exactly is it ?)

    matthewsmum: good luck with your last natural cycle, hopefully you won't need that fet

    hi to everyone else

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    Oh Minnie I am so sorry my sweetie, I was really hoping that things would work out. I know how hard it is to face a scan that you know will be bad news and my heart goes out to you

    Saffy - I'm glad you to hear you are going well, it is agonizing waiting for scans.

    Mathew'smum - Good luck for your cycle.

    Crafty - What's happening?

    AFM- The full moon brought me a lovely clarity this morning (yes it was still up when I went for my walk at 5.30am). I have decided to try this cycle and if it is a BFN I will ask Donor boy if we can freeze some swimmers at the clinic. We will still keep trying till Christmas and I will still go to Vietnam in Feb if I am not pg. I will initially go for 3 months and if I decide it is not where I want to be then I can come back and do IUIs with the frozen sperm. It lets me feel my options are still open and I don't have to face the horrible "that's it then I'm never going to have a baby" thought. 3 months away and doing something so totally different might be just what I need.

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    Whoo AF totaly playing the game and arived this morning. Hve booked my cd14 scan and if I have a good cycle I will O on my birthday, 2 days before my party :-)

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    Just popping in to say Minnie - I am so sorry hun, (((GHB))). Really feeling for you. Not sure what else to say but I'm thinking of you.

    Sunbeam - loving your positive attitude - good on you and a holiday in Vietnam sounds perfect - my boss just got back from there and she had a blast

    Wishing everyone well, GL.

    AFM ~ much happier, trying to enjoy life as much as poss. Still BDing and hoping for the best. Just O'ing now or probably finishing O'ing.

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    Minnie - Honey, your message box is full so I can't reply to your PM until you answer it.

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    Hi lovelies,

    Loops - Good to see your name sweetie I'm glad you are enjoying your break and enjoying life again.

    Minnie - Just wanted to send you a huge hug, not expecting that today's scan brought good news

    Saffy and Crafty - How's things going?

    AFM - Not real happy Af lasted less than 24 hours and was very light. Waiting to hear back from FS but thinking that can't be good for making a nice new lining for implantation.

  12. #174
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    hi girls,

    sunbeam and everyone else thanks so much, you are right the scan went as expected, still measured the same as 2 weeks ago and no heartbeat :-( i really don't know where to go from here, this is my 4th loss in a row & i think im done trying

    how frustrating for you with af, i don't really know but wouldn't light af mean the last cycle lining wasn't very thick ? maybe thats why your progesterone wasn't very high ?

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    Oh Minnie I am so sorry sweetie. I know there are no words to change how you are feeling right now. I know for you (and I) there is an answer out there somewhere as to why this keeps happening, if only we could find it. It sucks. I also understand the wanting to quit feeling, each of us can only take so much heartache. We are here for you.

    My lining was scanned on cd14 and was good. No idea where it went, if anywhere!

  14. #176
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    Hi all
    Minnie so sorry honey hope your going to come back when you feel upto it
    sunbeam sorry BFN and AF arrived oh well off to another cycle already lucky you !
    everyone else hope your ok

    AFM well where do I start firstly did another test sat morning BFN of course but today is day 41 still no nothing no sign of AF so girls what do I do from here ? do I go to the GP get another test ? ( the ones I have are cheap ebay ones ) or do I just say well at 46 you should expect to miss a few periods soon enough shouldn't you ? so girls what do I do ?

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    Hi Ladies

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    sunbeam-hope all is okay for next try...minniemouse-thinking of you...porshe-nice to hear from you...craftymummy-did af show?..afm-should 'o' in next few days,dtd last night to make room for some fresh swimmers.

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    Hi Girls,

    Gosh it has been quite in here I guess there are so few of us left!

    Crafty - What did you decide to do? Did you see the Dr.?

    Mathews'mum - Good luck with the TTW.

    Porsche - I think we'd be glad for you to join us there are so few of us in here now.

    AFM- Due for my cd14 day scan on monday. Feeling very unsure of this cycle as I had such a short and feeble AF, I will be partying hard all next weekend and Donor boy is not in the happiest space right now, not even sure if he'll agree to do this month! I'm in a "really starting to believe it'll never happen" space so thank goodness I have my birthday to focus on.

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    Hi Ladies

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