saffy: big to you, this journey is so hard, i think it is a good idea to have an end date if it helps you, it does become all consuming, i can't imagine how hard it is for you. im lucky i already have 2 children and i feel greedy wanting another when some of you girls haven't gotten your first.
the thing about the "end date" is it isn't set in stone and if you get to that point you can always choose to continue if you want to

it does rule your life, i have everything crossed for you that you don't reach that deadline because you are holding that much wanted bundle (or bundles) in your arms by then

sunbeam: good to hear you are keeping busy in the 2ww, i hope it continues that way, im thinking of testing sat too (my birthday) but im only 10 dpo then so don't know if i should (will either ruin my birthday or make it !), i will try and hold out but i know the reality is i won't be able to, how many dpo will you be sat ?

clairesmummy: i hope those opt's turn positive for you, as you know im pleased you have made a fs appointment and i hope it brings good news