Big hug lyra.... And Joeve... And everyone.... And Thankyou to all of you for trying to remind me to think realistically. It really does help.
I think we need a big I will get there. I've just gone back a few steps finding out about the girl at work who is 14weeks.
Dont even notice it in here.... But when it is someone I actually know it hurts like hell. And on top off that I had to go out to a critical incident at work yesterday - and that is always hard.
I tell you I will never take this stuff for granted again.
yes joeve, lets make a club, and we can have membership t-shirts that say things like "my stupid ovaries suck". Sorry to hear you're not feeling the love either.
Myturn- wow it's amazing how someone else's pregnancy has such a huge effect. But it does. And I'm totally ok with people getting pregnant who have had struggles, but if anyone falls easily I have a huge difficulty dealing with it. I think it's normal (well at least I hope so). Am hoping my counsellor can help me with that a bit. You poor thing, that must have been a kick in the guts when you needed it least. Big hugs to you.
LS x
Last edited by lyra stardust; May 4th, 2012 at 08:49 AM.
Argh Lyra I'm so sorry. It's so frustrating when that happens. What's the plan from here? Mine really took a long time this cycle but eventually got there, I hope yours do too.
Also just realised you are a Perth girl too. Amy, me4ever and I are having lunch on Saturday so if your keen (Amy may have figured this out and already contacted you!) I can forwar the details. Sometimes it's nice to know others irl going through something similar. No pressure but the offers there.
Thanks Keta, I know it's not over yet, and I'm still hoping that I get there, but these long cycles are just SO hard. And have never worked in the past so I guess right now I'm just thinking "what is the point?" I'm scared now I'll overstimulate and cancel as they've upped the drugs, and that's what happened last time I had a similar cycle. Boo, negative thoughts don;t help, I need to start the day with a fresh attitude!
Thanks for the invite but I have plans for Sat already. Hope you have guys have fun though! You can make each other laugh with stories of waxy pessaries
Hi ladies,
Just a quick one(I'm at work) the "surge" was detected yesterday so I'll be having transfer on Wednesday, providing the defrosting goes well
Hope you are all ok today! Be back later to do persies
Good luck for tomorrow Porche & Saff. You will both be on my minds tomorrow and I will be quietly stalking. Lets make it 2 for 2 and start filling up our BFP's list. We will all be here for you both either way xxxxxxxx
Good luck porsche and Saffy!!! Bring on the BFP's!!! I hope that you have a blood test in the morning, and then the earth slips into a wormhole and a few hours are mysteriously swallowed and then suddenly you are getting your phone calls, so you don;t have to go through the torturous waiting!
ps Keta- am i right in thinking you are doing OI this cycle or have you moved on to the IVF? Just wondered what day you had triggered? Sorry if I've mixed things up and got that wrong, my brain has trouble keeping everyone's stories straight!
Lyra - I am doing OI this time. We triggered on day 20. Im not sure of the exact day but I'm pretty sure my second cycle was even later. It didn't get me a bfp but each of these long cycles has produced the best 'conditions'. How are you going? Had your levels gone up today?
Porshe and Saffy - I hope tomorrow brings great news for the two of you.
Almost time for you too Vic. Got my fingers crossed hun!
Amy - hope you are feeling better.
Joeve - I'm sending you lots of hugs and hoping that your body pulls its act together soon with a bfp.
Oh good that's what I thought you were doing. My heart skipped a beat when I read day 20, the successful cycle that produced my amazing son I triggered day 20... not that I;m one to read anything into random coincidences and take them as a "sign" or anything!!
The'yre not testing me until monday, and not even a scan, just a blood, which is why I;m worried I'll overstimulate. Trying to think posituve though.
Oh and Planet sasha, sorry I missed you earlier- yay for transfer! Well done for surging and hope the thawing goes really well!!
Ok is being thirsty a symptom, ha ha?! I've been so thirsty yesterday and today. Clearly, at 2 dpt its too early but it seems really odd anyway
Got a dinner tomorrow with family, going to be hard not to have a drink and them not notice - I'm not a big drinker but usually have a glass. We haven't told anyone about the IVF this time - its our aim to announce at 12 weeks like "normal" people!!
Goodluck Porsche and saffy I can't wait to see you both with big fat flashing bfps at the top of the list!
Vic can you please put me as cd1 on the list? I have full blown AF with heavy bleeding and bits sorry tmi. Obviously things went very wrong as I had only 2 days post transfer with no bleeding..... What a complete waste of time and effort ivf was for us! I was never even in with a chance to hope it was going to work.
Oh dear sorry Joeve. The sucky thing about a stim cycle is the bleeding is so heavy. Just to rub it in more. N2l told me that the first time it happened to me and it helped to know it was the medication and not me. But it still sucked real bad it hurts too
I am sending you the biggest and I'm sure everyone else is too. Look after yourself sweetie.
So sorry Joeve! Lots of hugs to you! The whole process sucks, its bad enough AF arrives but the force of it just rubs salt into a raw wound! Take care. xx
I will get there. I've just gone back a few steps finding out about the girl at work who is 14weeks.
and I'm sure everyone else is too. Look after yourself sweetie.
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