Loops - I am so sorry to hear about no frozens. I so wish there was a court of unfairness to go an complain to as those of us going through this deserve to complain as it's just SO unfair. Don't count this embryo in there at the moment out just yet though!

Em Star - CONGRATS - that is fantastic news. Lots and lots of people bleed during their pregnancies, although it doesn't make you feel any better when it's you does it? The HCG doesn't lie though - you're little one looks pretty determined to stay right where it is!

Renee - goodluck for tomorrow, I'm sure it will be great.

Bj*81 - Sometimes it's good to have fresh eyes over the situation. Go with what you think feels right (I know that sounds a bit silly but sometimes we actually know what's right but it might be too hard). Hope that makes sense. What does your partner think?

mum-2-be - You made me laugh - which isn't that easy today turning up Whitney Houston loud in your office, that's the kind of thing I do but these days it's in the car. It's good for the soul in times of crisis!

tantee - Hi there, sorry you had to come back here and visit but hope that your lap proves valuable. I can't help with any info on them but I'm sure someone else here can.

juniper76 - Thanks for your thoughts, very sweet!

JBM - Hi there, I hope we are going to see you soon here?

Miss K and Melissa - Hope you are looking after yourselves. GL and FX - I'm thinking of you

Hi to anyone I have missed

AFM - A question - I have two frozen embies left (both 3 dayers) and either have a choice of a FET next month OR I have to take a month off (apparently because of Medicare?) then do a whole stim cycle. I don't have much faith in the FET process and am getting down to the dreggie eggies so to speak (I think they are 7 and 8 cell grade 2 but maybe one is grade 3). I know that I am lucky to have frozens but don't want to waste a month (and well of $1000) for my fourth in a row failed FET- but then of course it might work which is much cheaper and less evasive than a stim cycle(which seems to cost about $3000). What do you guys think?