thread: LT TTC & Assisted Conception Feb- Mar 2010

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2010
    504

    Loops - I am so sorry to hear about no frozens. I so wish there was a court of unfairness to go an complain to as those of us going through this deserve to complain as it's just SO unfair. Don't count this embryo in there at the moment out just yet though!

    Em Star - CONGRATS - that is fantastic news. Lots and lots of people bleed during their pregnancies, although it doesn't make you feel any better when it's you does it? The HCG doesn't lie though - you're little one looks pretty determined to stay right where it is!

    Renee - goodluck for tomorrow, I'm sure it will be great.

    Bj*81 - Sometimes it's good to have fresh eyes over the situation. Go with what you think feels right (I know that sounds a bit silly but sometimes we actually know what's right but it might be too hard). Hope that makes sense. What does your partner think?

    mum-2-be - You made me laugh - which isn't that easy today turning up Whitney Houston loud in your office, that's the kind of thing I do but these days it's in the car. It's good for the soul in times of crisis!

    tantee - Hi there, sorry you had to come back here and visit but hope that your lap proves valuable. I can't help with any info on them but I'm sure someone else here can.

    juniper76 - Thanks for your thoughts, very sweet!

    JBM - Hi there, I hope we are going to see you soon here?

    Miss K and Melissa - Hope you are looking after yourselves. GL and FX - I'm thinking of you

    Hi to anyone I have missed

    AFM - A question - I have two frozen embies left (both 3 dayers) and either have a choice of a FET next month OR I have to take a month off (apparently because of Medicare?) then do a whole stim cycle. I don't have much faith in the FET process and am getting down to the dreggie eggies so to speak (I think they are 7 and 8 cell grade 2 but maybe one is grade 3). I know that I am lucky to have frozens but don't want to waste a month (and well of $1000) for my fourth in a row failed FET- but then of course it might work which is much cheaper and less evasive than a stim cycle(which seems to cost about $3000). What do you guys think?

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2009
    Sydney NSW
    329

    Lairdoz - thankyou for your encouraging words....as for your dilemma i would try another fresh cycle if finances were not an issue. GL with your decision.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Queensland
    1,017

    bj - I know what you mean about not wanting to change FS it is hard to start it all over again

    Lairdoz - I am soo soo sorry to hear about your CP I hope you can do a back-2-back cycle and I hope it comes round real fast for you I would try frozen first if you have a tight budget....

    Renee- GL for tomorrow I bet your excited

    Tantee - I had Ovarian Drilling it didn't really work for me but some people it can help ovulate and fall naturally! I hope you are one of the lucky ones!! If you need to know or ask anything let me know ok xxoo

    mum-2-be - good luck for monday!!!

    Emerald Star - I will be that all is well come Mondays results xxoo

    Loops - please don't give up!!! I know its hard not to but try and hold onto a little bit of hope!! xxoo

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Sydney
    20

    Hi ladies,
    sorry its been a while since i stuck my head in but, the last few days has been so busy..

    Loops im sorry t hear about your eggies... there's not much worse.. big hugs xxx

    AFM well all went good yesterday, we got 1 egg so im happy 1 is better then none.was pretty sick and sore last night , but seem to settle down now, or maybe im just too focused on waiting for a phone call lol. atm im pacing the house waiting for this bloody phone to ring to say it has been fertilized OMG i wished good new would ring in!!! im going stir crazy here... if all goes well then ET on Monday so fingers crossed xx will give you up date as so as it comes in!

    I hope you all have a lovely weekend.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Sydney
    20

    ok ladies, that call has just come in! and we got fertilization!!! scienist said all looks good, and ET is monday at 1245 ! we are so happy

  6. #6
    Platinum Member. 2010 RAK Recipient

    Oct 2008
    Gold Coast QLD
    64

    Loops - I'm so sorry the same thing just happened to us and it is the worst feeling! We had borrowed money off my parents for it too. To go through all that for one shot is so unfair....BUT you are NOT allowed to give up yet!! You still have a little emby on board and everything you have left you have to give to him/her right now ok. There will be time to decide everything and get mad and upset later if you have to. xxx

    Emerald - I'm glad that everything is ok. All the best for monday

    Lairdoz - Boy that's a loaded question at the moment "what does your partner think"? How much time have you got?? We are not going so great at the moment so I'm kinda just making these decisions for myself...I am not going to decide about a new FS just yet, will see how this FET goes and then.....we'll see.
    As for your question.....I would do the full stim. Those frosty's aren't going anywhere, you can always go back to them later. Frozen cycles definitely aren't as stressful and there are still plenty of success stories from FET's but what I did was ask myself "If these FET's don't work, would I go again anyway"? If the answer is yes then you may as well do it now while your in the swing of things. But only you know what you can cope with honey. All the best....

    littlegem - That's so great! All the best for Monday. Will be sending all the positive thoughts I can muster your way.xxx

    Renee - Hope everything goes well today!! Been thinking of you!!

    Hi to everyone else I've missed

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Feb 2010
    Newcastle, NSW
    406

    Hi ladies,

    just a really quick pop in as my mum has come up for the weekend to make sure i don't get up and do anythingEverything went great today we had a beautiful embryo put in, doc said it can't get any better than that. We also have 3 others that made it to blast stage and have been frozen already, with 3 stalling a bit. Will pop in tomoz and do some personals i'm going back to lay with my legs in the air