I have been thinking about the fact we could have gone to the fs sooner...
I read somewhere that one of the reasons ttc takes ages and doesnt happen straight away is you need to learn patience, because it is something you really really need when you have kids.
the universe offered us the chance to get in sooner, and in the end it turned out DH wasnt working today so we really COULD have taken it. but it was like us saying "thankyou for the offer and chance universe, but we are happy to wait til next month like planned"
its like it proves we have patience and not rushing and all that.

well that atleast makes me feel better =)