awww tru hugs chick my mum, nanna, and great grandmother all went through menopause by the time they were 35 so I really do have a biological clock... talk with your fs if you really are then you should be able to collect alot of eggs have them frozen and then you can still do ivf hug that would have been such a huge shock for you. Your not having a good run are you.
Thanks guys for the support i think dh is feeling a bit better about it today