Ok Ladies here is an update as to where DH and I are at.

We had a good talk. Well my DH is really the perfect man. I talk and he listens lol.
We have decided to have a couple of cycles off. The last cycle really knocked me around emotionally if not physically. I am still feeling teary constantly and am not myself at all. For some reason I feel so much pressure to do the next cycle straight away but the only person pressuring me is myself. I am really not mentally healthy enough to go straight into another cycle. So I am going to take each cycle as it goes and if I feel well enough I will start my next cycle. I really believe you need to be in the right frame of mind as well as physically healthy to do IVF. So I need to take a moment to forgive myself and get myself together again. I think at the most I will be defering my treatment for two cycles. I am meant to be starting in three weeks.
So to rest relax and not even think about Baby Making we booked a holiday to Bali for eight days today for november and I also booked my self into a scuba dive cousre to keep me busy. It works out I will be due to start the week after we get back so that would be perfect timing if we decided to go ahead.

So in a nut shell I will call in periodically to see how everyone is going but not too often. Hopefully most of you will have moved on when I get back
Take care and lots of luck to you all