Hi Lovely Ladies
Firstly thank you so much for the tractor selling wishes and vibes, makes me feel so much better. I was pretty upset about everything last night. You ladies are the ones that keep me going and sane, thanks so much! Im at CD28, 14DPO and havent re-tested since my BFN on 10DPO. Normally my cycles are about 30-35days and usually I get AF on a Sunday so going by my dates most likely this Sun if Im going to get it. But then again I normally have very long cycles after IVF and with everything thats happened to my body of late I wouldnt be surprised if she were late again anyway. Although I did def O around Day 14 so nothing really makes sense. So to cut a long story short LOL, think I'll try and hold off on testing again until at least Saturday. Plus I dont have the money at the moment to buy tests anyway - which is probably a good thing in that regard
Meg ~ Hi and back. Sorry about all your BFN's. Sounds like you and the new FS have set the plans and all sounds wise to me. I like your idea of making a pact with yourself to not test until CD32, I might have to give it a go Wishing you all the very best, FX the clomid works and you dont have to keep doing IVF etc. GL
Juniper ~ thanks hunni, hope everything is still going well with you 3
DreamsintoReality ~ thanks so much for the hugs and your care and understanding, xo. How are you going. Hugs back!
Kaybee ~ thanks so much hun. Hope you are well and great to have you in here.
Sevie ~ woh that's freaky about you and your sis. Sorry you guys both have to go through that much disappointment. Hope everything works out for your sis this time and I hope it will be your turn very soon for a BFP!
Littlemissmoo ~ 8 - 10 that is excellent, hope they keep growing nicely and wishing you all the very best for Sat, GL!
Yogi Bear ~ thanks hun xo. All the best for your 1st scan on Fri, FX you have lots of nice follies there growing.
Lairdoz ~ All the best for your transfer hun, will be thinking of you with FX everything goes well and a positive result after the TWW. GL xoxo
Thanks everyone for thinking about me and my worry about if the medication is working.
to all the lovely ladies having or about to have their transfers.
Lairdoz - good luck with your transfer. Hope the cold goes away really soon. It seems to be the season, I have one as well.
Yogi - yes I find it hard to remember everything as well. for your scan on Friday. One step at a time. Hopefully you will be pleasantly surprised.
LMM - thanks for sharing your experience...it all turned out okay for me. 8-10 eggs sounds great! with your transfer. I hope you will be rewarded well with your different approach.
Sevie - Sorry about the negative HPT. The whole twin thing is amazing. I hope it works out for your sister. Hopefully the time will go quickly for you so that you can start your DIVF. The wait must be frustrating.
Hi to all the other ladies I have missed.
AFM: Had my scan today. Was a bit annoyed because my appointment was rescheduled from 8am to 9am and then the FS was running late and ended up being seeing at 9.30am. I was running very late for work. Anyhow, my scan showed I had 11 follicles of which 3 were a bit smaller than the other 8. I'm relieved to see that all is going well so far. I have another scan on Thursday and will mostly likely have EPU on Sun/Mon.
Kaybee: it is definately a great thing knowing you are not alone in this. You have a great group of support. Hoping good news comes from your FET the other day.
Sevie: Do you get the symptoms, etc of your sister with everything or just with the pregnancy?
Wishing you and your sister the best of luck, really hope it works out for the both of you!
littlemiss: Did you end up managing to keep yourself awake for trigger or did you snooze and wake up for it.
Good luck with epu tomorrow and also good luck with the transfer.
Yogi: Sending good luck your way for the scan on Friday. Hopefully you will get an excellent result!
Meg: the Clomid works for you! Sending you lots and lots of positive thoughts!
Lairdoz: First of all, hopefully you are feeling much better soon. Hoping the ET goes great for you and really hoping it brings a BFP your way! Lots of positive thoughts are sent your way! Also may the TWW go quickly for you!
Loops: Has anyone's tractor selling vibes brought in any offers yet? If not we are not sending enough vibes . Good luck with the testing on Saturday, hopefully it brings a good result.
Thank you for the hugs! You are welcome for the hugs and understanding, we are all here to care and support one another and it's the least I could do
LisaB: Hopefully something great comes from the Follicles. Good luck with the next scan and EPU.
Sending heaps of positive vibes your way. Hopefully we will be hearing of a BFP in the next few weeks from you
AFM: Had a bit of a rough day today, my CEO talked to me today and told me my job is most likely to be finishing up at the end of June due to limited funding, I worked for them last year and lost my job when they lost funding last time but went back when it picked up as they were good to work for, it's even worse as where I am in the outback there is very few jobs on offer. Also AF is due any day and I get very emotional around when it's due.
So today was a huge emotional blow to the head because all I could think about was we may have to delay our ICSI cycle until next year and I just couldn't stop (to make matters worse they even approved all my leave for IVF in September, why couldn't they just tell me they are unsure of what's happening with funding as they know months in advance), I had to leave work and went to DH's work, (where I fill in to help out sometimes) and the General Manager came up and grabbed me in a big hug and he told me everything will be okay and they will try to help me out with more shifts because he know's how important the IVF is to us, it's nice knowing there are people out there like that.
It was a horrible feeling, I just felt like DH and I are not supposed to have children as everytime we have attempted to start IVF in the past, something else has come up and it's been delayed and the thought of delaying it again, felt like my world was coming down around me. My apologies ladies, I just really needed to get that out and I am sorry if it didn't make sense, I am still a little all over the place!!!
Dreams - what a day!!! Hope you are feeling a little better after getting things out. I'm sure most of us have, at times, felt like we should take the hint from the universe and just give up on this dream. It's really hard not to feel like that when you're just dealt blow after blow, but it's going to happen. We're so lucky to live in a time and place where ivf and whatever else IS an option - yes, a bloody expensive, emotional and at times painful option but if it gets us that baby we'll go through almost anything. I'm sure AF isn't helping you feel any better either. Wish there was something I could say
Sevie - god knows how you must be feeling now after your crazy week as well. Hope you're coping.
Meg - sorry, I was confused, I said something about you starting again on the ivf ride. GL with the clomid - hopefully this will be IT
Geez, I keep on nodding off in front of the computer....so just a quickie for Yogi.
The 'twin-thing' has spun me out a bit too! I love my sis.
Yogi- thanks so much for the link. I think I might ring the FS to encourage him to up the Gonal-f dose. 150 seems crazy low for a 32 year old with an AMH of 9.3?!
Hi Ladies
Well some good news and some bad news last night. Good is that yes Dreams into Reality - the tractor selling vibes have worked, thanks so much to you all. A friend of a friend with a lot of money and a big slashing contract coming up has given us a verbal yes - he wants to buy it. I wont be jumping up and down until the money is in our bank account but very relieved and obviously thrilled Might take him a few weeks to get a little finance approved but Im happy with that.
So then because I was happier and we got a little money from DH's work I went out and bought couple of tests - wouldnt you know it BFN
So then we had to discuss last night would we go ahead and start the process for our July IVF or would we wait it out until Oct and save a bit more. We think its wise if we wait a bit and get rid of some debts - We are sick to death of the money stresses. So probably Oct unless we decided to go to the Melb clinic after a month or so then we can probably do it earlier.
DreamsIntoReality ~ thanks hun, now I want to return the favour. So sorry about your job . I know what that is like as I was made redundant couple yrs back from job I loved due to govt funding. Im sure you'll have no troubles finding other work, GL hun. Hoping you have a bit of time to find something else before you finish up. With all our money issues etc I felt exactly the same so completely understand how you feel like nothing goes right towards having a child. But I reckon the good time have got to come very soon for both of us, hang in there, chin up.
Lisa B ~ So happy your follies are doing well - that sounds great! GL for the weekend at EPU, FX you get lots of big eggies!
back. Sorry about all your BFN's. Sounds like you and the new FS have set the plans and all sounds wise to me. I like your idea of making a pact with yourself to not test until CD32, I might have to give it a go
Wishing you all the very best, FX the clomid works and you dont have to keep doing IVF etc. GL
to all the lovely ladies having or about to have their transfers.
for your scan on Friday. One step at a time. Hopefully you will be pleasantly surprised.
with your transfer. I hope you will be rewarded well with your different approach.
. Good luck with the testing on Saturday, hopefully it brings a good result.
(to make matters worse they even approved all my leave for IVF in September, why couldn't they just tell me they are unsure of what's happening with funding as they know months in advance), I had to leave work and went to DH's work, (where I fill in to help out sometimes) and the General Manager came up and grabbed me in a big hug and he told me everything will be okay and they will try to help me out with more shifts because he know's how important the IVF is to us, it's nice knowing there are people out there like that.
GL with the clomid - hopefully this will be IT
Might take him a few weeks to get a little finance approved but Im happy with that.
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