I'm not sure I can actually pick one of the poll options...

First time - yes we did, and we got a BFP, but miscarried...
Second time - no, too scared, another miscarriage...
Third time - no, way too scared, another miscarriage...

Fourth time - nope, too damned messy with the pessaries (first fresh transfer and first time I'd had luteal phase support) and got a BFP that finally turned into a real live baby.

Our clinic didn't warn us off sex at any stage - in fact during that last cycle DH was supposed to have daily ejaculations while I was on puregon, so there was a hell of a lot more sex then than at any other time during IVF... until my ovaries got too damned sore and swollen!

So... really not sure where I fit into the poll options...

BW