Cherie - I am glad my saying that helped, I did hope it didn't come out the wrong way. I have been guilty of thinking way ahead of myself on more ocassions that I care to remember but I must say I am getting better at it these days. It just about took my breath way when you mentioned not wanting to stay in your job forever and all your plans being taken away as I have felt that exact way. I have actually made a pact with DH that if we dont get pregnant in the next couple of years I am going to leave my job and go back to uni to do some postgraduate study (I am finishing an arts degree part time at the moment). The counsellor I went to see about all this made me realise that you need to be happy whether or not you fulfill the dream of having a baby. I will say though some are ready to work on this sooner than others and sometimes this is just way too hard to deal with. The best thing we can do is focus on keeping our thoughts in the present and think of what we can do now to fulfill our goals. I am glad to hear you are feeling better and hope that the migraine goes away soon.

I hope everyone else is going along well