Thank you for all your support and kind words. I know it is so difficult trying to comfort someone going through what is a terrible time for them. Especially us all who are in the same boat even though we all deal with it in different ways. My way was hybernation in bed, reading, not going to work and taking time out for me.
One thing that keeps coming to me when I calm down and think about it is we cannot change things. There is no such things as accidents. Everything happens for a reason. My first attempt at IVF I cont. going to the gym, kept myself busy with work, tried to control my temper and outbursts due to the hormone injections and nervousness of what was to come. I tried to stay as sane as I could (which is a big big thing..lol). And I got hyperstimulation.
This time round I thought I'm going to stop the gym, slow down with work, do yoga, I gained weight, was happy and content. I felt fabulous! And then I got a negative. My point is... I tried to change things within my life and within myself and NOTHING change within my situation. I am still not pregnant.
So what gives? At the end of the day it is out of our control. I have no answers as to why. So I should stop beating myself over why me? Why can't I get pregnant? Why is this happening? Is it because of this or that? Is it because I was angry with my SIL for getting pregnant? (sorry, I am Ms Analyser) I analysis everything!
Sorry to have gone and on... you are all thinking cut it out starbright your stretching the friendship..lol..

I have one question though.... has anyone gone through another transfer the very next month after a neg? Thanks for reading! And welcome to all the new girls! xxx