Hi Starbright

It sounds like you are behaving perfectly normally to me. I was the same, first time round, i carried on as normal and the second took it really easy and as you can see, both times negative. My consultant said it basically comes down to luck. You can produce 5 embryos all looking exactly the same under the microscope and you get nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, baby!! He says 90% of IVF is chance. So you're right, there is nothing you can do at this stage except look after your self and get your body in the best possible shape ready for the next go, if you decide to go again. All the best

To answer you question I have had substantial gaps between my cycles. longer after the fresh cycle apparently to let the hormnes totally subside and the ovaries recover from the stimulation.